Don't settle even if you remain alone longer than you wish to be. You deserve someone who will appreciate you for your beauty and your bruises. You have had your share of bad relationships to remind you that settling at this point in your life is not an option. You've given the wrong men the best pieces of you only for them to take advantage. It's taken you far too long to heal and get your heart back to one piece for you to take 10 step backwards and settle for a man who can't reciprocate the love you give simply because you feel alone.
You don't need to relive the hurt and pain from the past. You are not your past your destiny is far too important to settle for someone who can't meet you halfway. You need consistency and stability. Don't settle for a man who only loves you when it's convenient for him. When it comes to love and sustaining a relationship you shouldn't be the only one giving your best while they sit back and put forth no effort to make the relationship work. Don't settle for a man who can only afford to shower you with crumbs of affection. You require a full course meal or nothing at all.
Don't settle for a man who is the cause of your sleepless nights thinking that maybe you are not good enough. Got you questioning your worth and what you can do to make the relationship better. Don't settle for a man who is the source of your roller coaster emotional state. Don't settle for a man who disrespects you or one who uses physical force to get his point across. You deserve a man who sees the good woman in you and brings out the great. Don't settle for a man who you have to force to be with you. A man who makes you feel insecure and that you are undeserving of love.
Love should make you feel like you want to be a better version of yourself, it brings forth a feeling of joy. Love is not suppose to have you crying at night or stressing. It shouldn't make you feel like you are not worthy. The right man will bring out the great woman in you, so don't settle for a man you have to convince to be with you. The right man will love everything about you, flaws and all.
