But we’re not here to vilify all online parenting groups. After all, for every bizarre, peculiar, and critical post, there’s also a positive one. It’s easy to devour yourself in the craziness and overlook that these communities offer support, and even a lifeline, to strangers during difficult times.
"I definitely think there are positive aspects to online parenting groups as well," Holly noted. "It can be a great way to connect with other parents — especially if you don't have many friends or family members who are in the same season of life as you are right now. You can share your struggles and triumphs, ask for advice, and even just vent about the tough days."
"So while there are definitely some negative aspects to these groups, I think the positive ones outweigh them. And as long as you're selective about who you take advice from and remember that you know yourself and your situation best, they can be a great resource for parents," she said and added they can help you feel less alone and provide support when you need it most.
Choose your online community wisely, Holly advised. "Find communities that are highly moderated and supportive, steering clear of any that leave you feeling drained or negative."
"Of course, it's always helpful to get outside perspectives, but at the end of the day, you should do what you think is best for your child. They're the only ones who truly matter in this equation." Holly concluded by saying that parenting is hard enough without having to worry about judgment from others — "especially internet strangers! So find your tribe and trust your gut instinct. There is no one size fits all for parenting!"
