We love labels. But in some cases, assigning one is just impossible. A situationship is a romantic or physical — for the lack of a better word — connection that lacks commitment, expectations, and therefore, definition.
It sits in the gray area: more intimate than friendship, but not exclusive.
To get a clearer sense of what that looks like, we invite you to jump in with us on an online thread where people have shared the most diabolical things their situationships have said to them.
And technically, can you even be mad at someone if you were never really together?
#1
We were hanging out and I asked “do you think about me when I’m not around?” He responded “I don’t think about you even when you are around”
29points
#2
“You know you don’t have to message me every time to let me know you got home safe? x”
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29points
#3
“I don’t wanna sound insensitive but would you still wanna come over?” The day my mom passed away from cancer
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27points
#4
“ I don’t want anything serious with you but I don’t like the idea of you seeing other people”
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26points
#5
“I thought I wanted you, but now that I have you, I realised I don’t want you”
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23points
#6
We were at the club and the dj said “single ladies put your hands up?” And this guy said “yo put your hand up” and lifted my hand for me 😭😭😭😭😭😭
22points
#8
“I am happy with you but I don’t want to miss the opportunity to possibly be happier with someone else”
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20points
#9
"when I am with you I enjoy every moment but when we are apart I don't think about you at all"
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19points
#10
“Do you think we’ll go to each others weddings” while we were on a trip together
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18points
#11
“I might be getting back together with my ex, but I’ll keep you updated”
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18points
#13
“I want you to be my girlfriend” *30 min later “sorry I changed my mind I didn’t think this through”
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18points
#14
"you are such a great girl. you have SO much love to give. I just don't want it"
17points
#15
He rushed us both out of his house early the next morning so he could go to his dentists appointment, both hopped in our separate cars, but I waited in my car and watched him circle the block and go back in the house 😂😂😂
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17points
#16
“You’re the perfect girl. I’d marry you right now if there weren’t so many options out there”
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17points
#17
i finally ended things with him and he told me he was proud of me
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16points
#18
“I can totally see myself marrying you and having kids with you, but I won’t”
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16points
#19
I told him i felt like he hated me sometimes to which he said “you know in order to hate you that means i gotta care about you which i dont”
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16points
#20
He texted me months after I ended it to come over, I replied I’m on a date. He said “great take the leftovers to go for us please”
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16points