Kyla started with a blog before making a Facebook page and other social media accounts where she shares hilarious, relatable parenting content. When we asked her to tell us about herself, she wrote: “I started a blog in 2012 called Mommy's Weird. I work at a library and a bookstore. I am married to an introvert who doesn't know what to do with me, we have two kids that are 15 and 12- who are now more mean funny than cute funny. We live in Cranbrook, British Columbia Canada.”
Kyla was experiencing all sorts of parenting joys and challenges when she decided to create a blog that now resonates with parents all over the world. She shared with us how it all started: “I was on maternity leave with a very busy 3-year-old, and I had a 7-month-old. I was lonely, tired, and needed something for myself. I’d been a radio announcer for years and was craving a creative outlet. I had 2 smart friends within a week tell me I should blog. I had no clue what I was getting into.”
As with any person who creates popular content online, Kyla has touched her followers through her posts in one way or another. We asked her what kind of impact does she hope to have on her fans. Kyla shared: “At first, it was truly only for self-deprecating laughter. As time has gone on, I realize that it is for the mental health of women.”I am sure you are already aware that women are very susceptible to various mental health problems after giving birth. Having children completely changes your life in ways you could never imagine before. So it is healthy to find new ways to enjoy yourself, even if it is finding a community you can relate to.
We asked Kyla to share her opinion on what role humor plays in coping with the challenges of motherhood. She shared: “Parenting days are filled with moments that you either laugh or you cry. And most days, I do both.”
Kyla’s content has an impact that is hard to describe, however, the feedback she shared with us explains the importance of having someone you can relate to. “Mommy's Weird is 95% humor. A few years ago, I hit the bottom. Hard. Our kids were struggling and I quickly realized that I had to come first in our family instead of 4th. If I kept putting everyone first, our family was going to fall apart. I never think that anyone is reading what I share, but I was at children's story time with my 6-year-old son and a very tired-looking woman with a messy bun was sitting in front of me with a fussing baby in her arms and a toddler that wouldn't stop trying to climb into her lap. She turned to me and said, "Are you, Kyla? I love Mommy's Weird." Here she was thanking me while she was struggling, it made me feel like what I was doing might actually be helping someone,” shared Kyla.
And lastly, Kyla shared: “When I first started the page was for me, that has shifted dramatically. Being a mom is lonely, suffocating, and tiring, and not for one second have I ever thought of it as rewarding, now that may change, but for now, I keep the Facebook page going ONLY for those that are knee-deep in this motherhood gig and need a smile.”
