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50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction

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When two people are trying to hit it off, everything kind of... depends. If they operate on different frequencies, small habits and weird personal quirks can quickly reduce attraction to cringe.
TikTok user Samantha Ouellette recently asked everyone to share their biggest turn offs — or "icks," as some call them now — and the examples she received range from obsessing over money to idolizing questionable characters, reminding us that if it's not meant to be, it's not meant to be. At least these folks found out sooner rather than later.

#1

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
Being mean to my cat
115points

#2

I lost our baby due to a miscarriage. I told him. He said oh I’m sorry and kept playing PlayStation. He was in his 30s and we were married with a child already. Now I’m happily divorced.
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87points

If you're interested in how these experiences fit into the bigger picture, we can take a look at a survey of 2,000 adults commissioned by the dating site Seeking and conducted by OnePoll.

According to its results, more than half (65%) have ended a relationship because of an ick, and 88% of them have ghosted someone completely.

Smelling bad turned out to be the top ick, selected by 24% of respondents. This was followed by pretending to be more knowledgeable about something than you really are and being rude to a waiter (both 21%).

#3

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
he swerved to try and hit a groundhog instead of trying to avoid
82points

#4

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
Came over to my house for the first time and actually yelled at my dog when it barked… like who is you
78points

Other notable selections were living in a mess, being overbearing, having dirty fingernails, being too clingy, having bad teeth, double texting (sending a secondary text if you're not getting a response to the first one), talking too loudly, chewing with their mouth open, and oversharing on social media.

The survey also found that an eighth of men (14%) would happily break it off with someone who wanted to share food on a first date, and 6% of women find wearing a tacky watch to be an "ick."

#5

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
This might sound wierd but he was mean to my childhood stuffed animal- like punching it and kicking it around my room. Lost feelings right there and told him to leave.
76points

#6

we were eating in his car, asked if I was done & I said yes & proceeded to throw all the trash outside the car window 😭
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71points

#7

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
He went out his way to try to end a grasshopper that wasn’t bothering him 🚩
70points

Four in nine (44%) respondents described themselves as at least somewhat picky when it comes to finding a partner, with 33% saying they are “very picky.”

The vast majority (79%) also believe they deserve the best, so they try to raise their standards when looking for a partner—a phenomenon known as “dating up.”

That being said, 40% agree that dating gets harder as you age, so it’s not surprising that only 37% insist on going out exclusively with someone who matches their preferences exactly.

#8

He was an Andrew Tate follower
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68points

#9

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
He said “your best friend has eyes on me, seems like you have competition” i ended it right away
63points

#10

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
he would send me pictures of models he followed on insta and said he wished I looked like that
63points

#11

He wanted to take control of my finances. all of them.
62points

#12

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
He told me I’m high maintenance when it was 95 degrees out and I wanted water which was like a dollar
57points

#13

He was rude to our waitress and didn’t tip. I went back and tipped her and apologized for his behaviour. That was our first and last date.
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57points

#14

I am a home health CNA and I said that I cook and clean for my patients and he said, “so everything a typical woman should do.” Bye bye
56points

#15

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
he sent me $20 and said you never had a real man that’ll send you money. mind u he was paying me back…
54points

#16

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
He ate chicken wings and then touched my hair with his fingers
53points

#17

A few years after my mom died I was having a really bad day were grief was overwhelming. I told my husband "I miss my mom so bad". He responded, "I miss mine too". She lived 25 mins away. I'm now happily divorced.
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53points

#18

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
He dated me for 5 years but didn’t come to my mom’s funeral.
52points

#19

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
he put gum behind his ear to chew it later 🙂
49points

#20

50 Times A Single “Ick” Instantly Ended Someone’s Attraction
She chewed with her mouth open. I’m sorry, I literally can’t 💔
48points
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