When your love is real, its hard to just stop loving someone. That's what makes breaking up so hard to do. You know it's time to go, but love just won't let you walk away. Real love wants you to give them another chance; to try just one more time to make it work, even when deep down inside you know...he'll never change. She have to accept that you just won't stop loving him; at least not as fast as you would like to. But deciding to move on is sometimes not about falling out of love with someone. Sometimes its simply about falling deeper in love with yourself, and acknowledging that staying in certain situations is a betrayal to your own self. Being a good woman means that sometimes you have to accept that some men just aren't ready for that real type of love, and move on. Otherwise years later you will regret staying in a relationship that was based solely on your love and not his and that alone will drain yo your joy.
You have to accept the FACT that all people don't belong in a relationship and you cannot force it. Don't let your self-worth get so low that you start to settle and believe that no men is faithful. The enemy knows that by attacking a woman’s emotions he will keep her in the same position. A person will treat you exactly the way that you allow them, show them, permit them and teach them. God will never send anything or anybody your way that will hurt you, lie to you, make you cry, or misuse and abuse you! If its causing you too much pain, HE didn’t send him, you picked him! Pray and surround yourself with people that will build you up, help you "unpack" If you feel your too much of a woman for him, simply walk away from the nonsense. No need to stress someone who is not even stressing you.
A man will treat you like crap because you ALLOW him too. Your man or woman cheat on you because you always forgive them. They ignore you because you're always available to them. They neglect you because you accept it. Your HAPPINESS begins with the person in the mirror. NOT a man or woman. Sometimes love is not enough, if the person you choose to love tears you down disrespects you, degrades you and is unfaithful to you then you're better off heart broken rather than in a miserable relationship. We all deserve to be treated right. Once you realize that, you will gather up the strength needed to move on no matter how bad it hurts.....
