It's not always easy to cut ties with someone who you feel addicted to yet know they are no good for you. We end up doing over time in a seasonal relationship because we are afraid of being alone and starting over. So we hang on to the familiar even tho it's unhealthy and slowly killing us.
Numerous reasons keep telling you it's time to let go, but you hold on to that one reason on why you shouldn't. You try to justify hanging on just a little longer in hopes that things will get better with them. The longer you remain in denial the longer it will hurt in the end. If they are not contributing to your growth you are simply wasting your time. Emotional bonds are hard to cut but necessary, specially if the person's behavior doesn't line up with your desire to be loved not just physically but emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.
The wrong personal will never achieve at giving you what the right person can. Holding on to a dysfunctional relationship is not where your strength lies, real strength lies in cutting ties and having the courage to walk away from the person who is doing more damage than good.
It will always be a struggle to break free from an emotional bond that is tied to memories that keep lingering in our minds and heart. That's why it is important that we get control of our emotions so that we don't find ourselves going back to what we know we should be walking away from. Admitting to ourselves that it's time to walk away is the biggest step we can take in the healing process. Getting over any breakup takes tremendous patience and time and there is no time limit for getting over someone. Healing occurs on its own time, and while you might have a good day today, tomorrow can hit you like a ton of bricks and hit you at your very inner core. We will go through a roller coaster of emotions during this period that will intensify as we detoxify from it. Letting go is never easy, but as time goes by you will find yourself feeling less and less hurt. You will eventually heal and meet someone who's love will make you question why you even stressed those from your past.
