It’s not the fact that we want men to pay attention to us, that isn’t it. It’s that we are invisible when our more conventionally attractive friends are around. I can’t tell you how many times my hot friends and I have been out somewhere and I end up just wandering away because it feels SO awkward that these men are like, so afraid that I’ll take even a friendly introduction as “I’m interested in this ugly girl” that they will meet everyone, say hi, talk to them etc and just pretend I’m not standing there. Bro I’m not trying to get into your pants but it’s f**king weird when you pretend I’m a house plant
Alexa, play “Lower Your Expectations” by Bo Burnham