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30 Of The Most Essential Life Skills Every Adult Needs Before Life Becomes Brutal
CuriositiesNOV 8, 2024

30 Of The Most Essential Life Skills Every Adult Needs Before Life Becomes Brutal

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A few days ago, Reddit user Abject_Analysis_8602 asked everyone on the platform to list the life skills they believe people should know by the time they're 30, and it immediately went viral. From setting healthy boundaries to basic home maintenance, continue scrolling to check out the most popular replies out of the thousands that poured in.

#1

Cooking eggs in a pan, an essential life skill for adults in the kitchen.
Cooking basic meals. It’s not just about impressing friends; it’s essential for survival and saving money. Plus, nothing beats the satisfaction of not having to rely on takeout every night.
63points

#2

Two women practicing essential life skills, discussing in a bright room, one holding notebooks.
How to thank others when appropriate and how to apologize when appropriate.
49points

#3

Woman multitasking on phone and laptop, learning essential life skills at home.
How to research topics and vet information sources.
46points

#4

Two adults in casual clothes having a conversation on outdoor steps, highlighting essential life skills.
How to accept the word no.

I have worked in customer care, all my adult life and entitlement can be seen at all ends of the spectrum. However, the wealthiest people seem to struggle the most with a two letter word.
43points

#5

Two adults practicing life skills through conversation, sitting on steps in casual attire.
I know this sounds politically charged but by 30, people should be able to still hold a conversation and be respectful while also disagreeing. It's a common thing this era for people to storm off and talk c**p when they disagree. Blocking people, banning people, etc.

The world has over 8 billion people in it. It's pretentious to assume that everyone should always agree with you.
42points

#6

Two adults in a tense discussion, demonstrating essential life skills in conflict resolution at home.
Set healthy boundaries. Stop letting people invalidate your worth or push you in a direction you aren’t comfortable going. Don’t be afraid to walk away from people, jobs, or situations that are bad for you.
42points

#7

How to be alone. Sometimes it’s good to just be by yourself.
39points

#8

Two adults shopping for groceries, selecting oranges and pineapples, demonstrating essential life skills.
How to choose good fruit, and vegetables at the grocery store!
37points

#9

Counting money on a couch next to a laptop, highlighting essential adult life skills.
Basic financial literacy.

Shouldn't need to come to reddit to ask if it's better to pay down your mortgage or the micro loan you took out from the Albanian mafia.
36points

#10

Man thinking deeply in a library, wearing glasses and a green shirt, reflecting on essential life skills.
How to make a decision based on facts and objective evidence from credible sources.
33points

#11

Changing a car tire, demonstrating essential life skills for adults.
Basic car maintenance/knowledge. i.e., changing a tire, checking oil levels, adding oil if needed, changing windshield wipers. A little of preventative maintenance goes a long way.
30points

#12

Two women sitting on a beach log, discussing essential life skills and enjoying the view.
Listening. Everything doesn’t have to be about you, and you don’t have to have all the answers, sometimes just listening to someone is all they need.
29points

#13

As a chef I’ve got to go with basic food hygiene. Learning how to store your food properly, knowing temperature danger zones, cross contamination & basic COSHH.

The amount of times I’ve had to bite my tongue seeing p**s poor standards in friends & family’s kitchens makes me anxious to eat there.
29points

#14

Household budgeting.
28points

#15

Hands performing CPR on a dummy, illustrating essential life skills training for adults.
CPR.

It's one day out of your life in exchange for all the rest of the days of someone else's.
28points

#16

Adult swimming in a pool, demonstrating essential life skills.
Swim. Amazing how many people don't know how to swim, go in the water.
27points

#17

Being on time. Being late for everything is not an adult activity.
26points

#18

Two women at a cafe table, engaging in a serious conversation about essential life skills.
How to have uncomfortable conversations about feelings and defining boundaries. People who don’t have these skills cause more problems than they’re worth.
25points

#19

How to read a map.
25points

#20

Do laundry.
24points
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