In case someone ignores such requests or becomes aggressive, experts recommend avoiding escalating the situation by involving transport staff or letting it go completely.
"Remember that everyone is already stressed and on edge so you want to avoid escalating the situation," says Hirst. "Be polite but assertive. A simple polite request can go a long way to solving the problem. When in doubt, lead by example. If commuters are not giving up their seats, then you can offer up your seat, and hopefully, you will inspire others to do the same."
To ensure a pleasant commute for everyone, etiquette experts provide a few rules that public transport passengers should stick to:
- Keep quiet—use headphones or speak softly during your phone calls.
- Respect personal space—try not to bump, lean, or push others.
- Share the space—your one fare entitles you to one seat. Do not take up more than that.
- Be considerate—cough or sneeze into a tissue or your elbow so as not to spread germs.
- Follow the rules—pay your fare and wait your turn to board.
- Let others off first—mind the doors and allow passengers to disembark before boarding.
- Leave personal grooming to the privacy of the bathroom—light touch-ups, like reapplying lipstick or fixing your hair, are fine if done discreetly, but anything more should be reserved for a private space.
#27 I Had To Get Up And Change Seats Because These Scum Bags Decided To Start Smoking Next To Me. Not Only That, But They Kicked Leftover Food Under Their Seats And Spill Their Drinks All Over The Floor. This Type Of Stuff Happens Every Day On The Train

"A little kindness and self-awareness can make all the difference. Whether it’s offering a smile, helping someone with heavy luggage, or saying “thank you” to the driver, these small gestures can transform a busy, chaotic commute into a more pleasant experience for everyone. After all, how we behave in shared spaces reflects not just our manners but also our respect for one another," says Szabova.
"Gratitude and kindness go a long way," agrees Hirst. "Thank people or give a nod when someone gives you their seat or helps you with your bag to show you appreciate their gesture. A little thoughtfulness can make public transportation better for everyone."
#28 Girls Play Music And Sing Along Very Loudly, Then Get Off The Bus Leaving This Behind

#32 Continuing To Play A Loud Video On The Bus With No Headphones Even After Asking Her To Stop

#35 Start To Wonder Why The Train Carriage Is Starting To Smell, Glance Over And Shoes Are On The Floor And Gammy Feet Are On The Seat. Gotta Love British Rail

#36 This Woman Who Thinks It's Appropriate To Use A Seat On The T For Her Shopping Bags

#37 This Guy Taking Up Three Seats On The Bus While Watching A Movie Without Headphones

#39 Smelt Cigarettes Coming From Someone On My Bus, First Thought They Were Smoking. Turns Out They Were Trashing My Bus. They're A Regular On The Service And I Will Be Calling Them Out On It When They Next Get On. Made The Bus Smell For The Duration Of The Route But I Did Clean It Up When I Got Back

















