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30 Women Share Screenshots Of Cringy Men Hitting On Them, Then Not Taking "No" For An Answer (New Pics)

30 Women Share Screenshots Of Cringy Men Hitting On Them, Then Not Taking "No" For An Answer (New Pics)

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Approaching someone to flirt can be stressful, it takes some social skills, suave and smoothness. This is perhaps why some folks prefer to text. However, this extra “comfort” comes at the cost of the least appealing people shooting their shot.
Some folks share screenshots of the worst, most embarrassing and cringy texts they’ve gotten from men in some misguided attempt at flirting. So get comfortable as you scroll through, upvote the worst examples and be sure to share your own thoughts and experiences in the comments below.

#1 I Thought That Was Your Thumb

I Thought That Was Your Thumb
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140points

#2 “I Want To Show You A Good Time”

“I Want To Show You A Good Time”
102points

#3 NGVC: "Not Interested In Me? But I'm A Nice Guy! Must Be Racism"

NGVC: "Not Interested In Me? But I'm A Nice Guy! Must Be Racism"
94points

Unfortunately, there have been guys making unwanted and, frankly, horrible advances for, probably, much of human history. Over a hundred years ago, in Washington D.C. Alice Reighly formed an “anti-flirt club” to help women avoid the attention of men while out in public, mostly by educating younger women on the strategies unscrupulous men would use at the time.

In short, men would offer women walking somewhere to drive them. A Miss Helen Brown stated in 1923, that "Too many motorists are taking advantage of the precedent established during the war by offering to take young lady pedestrians in their cars.” It would appear that some men will get very creative when it comes to obnoxious flirting.

#4 Men Like This, You Make Me Sick

Men Like This, You Make Me Sick
just this morning - three separate guys on this app told me they were horny/had wood. completely unprovoked. this was the third guy, and as you can probably tell I was annoyed. it felt good typing that last message. finally deleted the app (which tbh I should've done a while ago, don't know why I didn't) but this was the final straw. men like this are truly disgusting.
87points

#5 BF Doordashed Me Food, Dasher Wanted To Text His # Thinking It Was Me LOL

BF Doordashed Me Food, Dasher Wanted To Text His # Thinking It Was Me LOL
77points

#6 Dug Up An Old Text I Received In 2021

Dug Up An Old Text I Received In 2021
Got takeout one day and went on public transportation with my bag of food. Already had a bad feeling, I knew I should’ve taken the receipt off. Not even sure what he looks like, but this man stole my number off of the ticket on my bag. This happened years ago, but this subreddit inspired me to find this and post it here.
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76points

Even more well meaning men tend to misinterpret signals all the time, through a lack of understanding context clues, lack of experience or just good old fashioned delusion. As surprising as this might seem, a woman working in a customer-facing job smiling is probably doing it because she has been told she has to.

#7 Ngvc: "Just Trying To Be Nice"

Ngvc: "Just Trying To Be Nice"
67points

#8 Aftermath Of Reporting Him To HR… He’s 20 Years Older Than Me Btw

Aftermath Of Reporting Him To HR… He’s 20 Years Older Than Me Btw
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60points

#9 I Didn’t Give Him My Number, He Got It From My Vacuum Rental Receipt

I Didn’t Give Him My Number, He Got It From My Vacuum Rental Receipt
After this interaction I called the rental place and told them what happened. They called back and apparently he was fired. I hope that taught him to never do this creepy stuff ever again! Also, the rental receipt literally had my address on it. Thankfully this was during a move and the paperwork had my old apartment’s address. Still so creepy to think about.
60points

Of course, many of the examples here don’t even have that plausible deniability. A delivery driver texting the number attached to the account that ordered some Door Dash is just ridiculous and gives the entire profession a bad name. Enough women have had bad experiences with this to make it more than just some isolated instances.

#10 Forever Feels Like Only A Few Minutes When I’m With Him

Forever Feels Like Only A Few Minutes When I’m With Him
55points

#11 Landlord Keeps Getting Texts Like This From A Tenant

Landlord Keeps Getting Texts Like This From A Tenant
55points

#12 My Ex Texted Me At Work Asking For *pics* Thinking I Was Someone Else, And Now I Pray For Whoever Alice Is

My Ex Texted Me At Work Asking For *pics* Thinking I Was Someone Else, And Now I Pray For Whoever Alice Is
54points

#13 My Old Neighbor Who I Considered A Friend Sent Me This Last Week

My Old Neighbor Who I Considered A Friend Sent Me This Last Week
We have barely talked since he moved out but we used to hang out in his apartment sometimes. Officially creeped out.
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53points

#14 From A Guy Who I Briefly Dated For 3 Weeks Nearly A Year Ago

From A Guy Who I Briefly Dated For 3 Weeks Nearly A Year Ago
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53points

#15 NGVC: “Me, I’m A Nice Guy. A Gentle, Intellectual Soul…”

NGVC: “Me, I’m A Nice Guy. A Gentle, Intellectual Soul…”
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50points

#16 NGVC: “Girls Like You Are The Reason Guys Don’t Approach Females As Much These Days”

NGVC: “Girls Like You Are The Reason Guys Don’t Approach Females As Much These Days”
48points

#17 Guy Called Me This Morning Asking When I Wanted To Hook Up. I Told Him He Had The Wrong Number. I Got This Text Right After

Guy Called Me This Morning Asking When I Wanted To Hook Up. I Told Him He Had The Wrong Number. I Got This Text Right After
48points

#18 His Efforts

His Efforts
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48points

#19 We’ve Been Divorced For 20yrs

We’ve Been Divorced For 20yrs
45points

#20 Men, Do Not Do This. Absolutely Insane

Men, Do Not Do This. Absolutely Insane
45points
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