73 Times ‘Karens’ Acted Absolutely Ridiculous And Refused To Admit They Were Wrong

A woman who uses her social clout or white privilege to harass industry workers, cut corners, or demand special treatment in public is usually called a “Karen.”

But you might be wondering why this name in particular.

Although the meme’s origin is more like a chicken-and-egg situation, the name Karen was super popular for baby girls in the US in the 1950s and 1960s. This means a lot of women now in their 40s–60s actually are named Karen, so the stereotype fits a real age group.

There are a bunch of threads that eventually helped the name become a meme and more.

“A lot of the ‘Karen’ situations we see involve white privilege or class privilege (or both), which can drive a lot of entitlement. What do you mean I'm going to be inconvenienced in some way? What do you mean I can't have exactly what I want immediately? People who come from these privileged places often feel entitled to whatever they want and don’t explore that, which can contribute to treating the people around you terribly because you feel you have the right to,” clinical psychologist and author Dr Amy Marschall, Psy.D, tells Bored Panda.

Some people believe it started with the “Oh my god, Karen, you can’t just ask someone why they’re white” meme from the movie Mean Girls. Others believe the name may have caught on because of the character Karen from the 1989 gangster film Goodfellas.

Given how much online culture influences trends, it’s not surprising that fewer and fewer people are naming their kids Karen now. Experts note its popularity had already been falling for 50 years, but the memes accelerated it.

Entitled behavior is often driven by a deep need for control combined with low emotional regulation, Tracy Malone, a relationship coach dealing with narcissism and entitlement, tells Bored Panda.

“When someone feels uncomfortable, ignored, or powerless, they may attempt to regain control by demanding special treatment or escalating situations beyond what’s appropriate.”

She believes that some behaviors labeled as ‘Karen behavior’ can overlap with narcissistic traits “such as lack of empathy, a sense of superiority, and entitlement but not everyone displaying these behaviors is a narcissist.”

Often, it’s a combination of poor coping skills, learned behavior, and an inflated sense of personal rights, she adds.

When the ‘Karen’ meme first showed up online around the mid‑2010s, it wasn’t this huge cultural thing. It was more like a dumb joke people used for annoying behavior — basically someone who put themselves first and acted like they were always right.

But the term blew up around 2020. A Black man was in New York’s Central Park when he asked a woman, Amy Cooper (no relation), to leash her dog in a restricted area. Instead of complying, she called 911, claiming an “African American man” was threatening her life.

The whole thing was filmed, went viral, and she instantly became known as the “Central Park Karen.”

That’s when the name started being used in a much broader way to call out people using their white privilege to harass, intimidate, or engage in racist behavior.

“When it got to the protests and the avalanche of incidents where white ladies were calling the cops, that’s where it began to get a bit more menacing. I think when people started pointing out who a Karen in real life was, like the ‘Can I speak to the manager?’ figure and starting to zero in on the exact kind of person they were talking about, it became a lot easier to see those types of people in real life,” says Adam Downer, associate editor at Know Your Meme.

When COVID‑19 hit, a whole pandemic Karen stereotype cropped up too.

It was used for a person refusing to wear a mask, spreading conspiracy theories, promoting anti-vaccine ideologies, or acting like safety rules should bend just for them.

There was a Karen who intentionally coughed on someone who called her out for not wearing a mask while at a coffee shop in New York City.

But long before Karen became the go‑to insult online, Black communities historically used names like Miss Ann to call out white women whose actions were oppressive or racist.

Later alliterative nicknames like Barbecue Becky, Permit Patty, or Golf Cart Gail were used for specific incidents.

These incidents usually involved a white woman calling the police on Black people for trivial or made‑up reasons.

Gen Z is now trying to replace ‘Karen’ with ‘Jessica’ as the new slang term for demanding women.

On how to deal with such entitled people, experts say the most effective response is calm and non-reactive.

“You don’t match the intensity you manage it. Clear limits, minimal emotional engagement, and consistent enforcement of rules help de-escalate the situation without feeding the behavior. In many cases, it’s less about ‘winning’ the interaction and more about not getting pulled into the emotional chaos,” says Tracy Malone.

Dr Amy says workers are often bound by the rules of their job. “In theory, I think that if someone starts screaming at you, you ought to have the right to say, 'That's not an appropriate way to speak to me. Get out,' but some businesses will side with the customer no matter how irrational they are."

"As a bystander, my usual take is to loudly comment on the entitled behavior. For example, if the person in front of me in line is going off on the cashier, when it is my turn I will say, "Wow, that was really weird! I can't believe they would talk to you like that!" she adds.

There are over 1.5 million posts with the hashtag #Karen on Instagram.

They’re a mix of videos and pictures of women yelling at store clerks, cutting in line, calling the police over minor disputes, or just staring into the camera with that signature condescending smirk while pointing a finger like they’re in charge.

#AndThenKarenSnapped also became a viral trend, describing white women losing their tempers.

A recent survey found that 62% of UK adults associate the name Karen with traits including entitlement, obnoxiousness, privilege and being demanding.

At least 69% of UK adults aged 40 to 54 said they would not name their child Karen due to the associated connotations.

A male version of the Karen meme has also emerged — names like Ken, Josh or Chad get thrown around when people want a male equivalent. But none have really stuck in the same way.

People online sometimes call men who act just as demanding or privilege‑driven a “male Karen.”

That’s partly why some critics argue the meme is sexist.

British feminist Julie Bindel tweeted in 2020: “Does anyone else think the ‘Karen’ slur is woman-hating and based on class prejudice?”

Other critics have said the term is classist and ageist. 

Sometimes a woman gets called a Karen just because of how she looks, what she’s wearing, or her hairstyle.

Some men, especially incels and other trolls online, have even used the meme as a weapon to attack women they don’t like.

However, people who use the term argue it’s not just a catch‑all for middle‑aged white women. Instead, it’s meant to tag specific behaviors, not a gender.

Writer Karen Geier responded to Bindel’s tweet: “As the only Karen replying to you: No. If you have a problem being called ‘a Karen’ then don’t be one? I don’t call the police on people or ask to speak to the manager. Very simple!”

Some people define the term as a cultural tool to expose behavior that harms others, especially when it’s tied to inequity or bias.

Memes have a way of turning hurt into humor, but they can also shine a light on serious issues.

By turning real-life Karen encounters into viral clips and memes, netizens highlight acts of entitlement and aggression that might otherwise go unnoticed.

“They are helping us have this dialogue about casual racism or seemingly casual racism, because it’s not actually casual. But it appears to be when it happens on camera and we can sort of laugh about it. And they also call for restitution. They’re saying it’s not okay for you to do this. We’re not going to tolerate it,” says Apryl Williams, a faculty associate at the Berkman Klein Center for Internet & Society.