Infidelity in itself is already unforgivable. It’s a heartless act that can cause a lifetime of rage, distrust, and trauma in the person who experienced it from their partner.
However, some people are downright cruel enough to take it a step further, so much so that their actions caused a fallout that extended to friends, family members, even children. These are the kind of stories shared in this recent Reddit thread.
These stories prove some people have no shame. Feel free to share similar experiences in the comments below.
#41
Was a waitress in a restaurant as a teen (small town) and one of my teachers always came in on a Saturday night with the same lady. Naturally assumed she’s his wife, happened every week for about 3 years. Came to our leavers ball and he’s with another woman who introducers herself as his wife… I just stood there confused while he looked like he hoped the ground would swallow him up.
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#42
Guy cheated on his wife with her identical twin.
They actually ended up in a thrupple.
They actually ended up in a thrupple.
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#43
Well my wife of 10 yrs decided to entertain the advance of a coworker because "he kept praising her" and then blamed me for not showing enough love not bringing up the fact she was the one who made a d**d bedroom after the birth of our daughter and i waited patiently.. I also WFH job so that she can go back to office.
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#44
A former friend cheated on his pregnant wife with her best friend over the course of several months. She found out, it was a horrible situation for her but he ended things with the girl and she forgave him. Two years later he cheated on her again with a coworker. This time he left her for the woman and they are married. His kids don’t speak to him much anymore. I also cut him out of my life. He uses and ab**es people.
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#45
One of my best friends dated a guy throughout medical school for 4 years & she became increasingly frustrated that he hadn’t shown signs of proposing post-graduation.
While they were doing residences in separate cities, she had a gut feeling something was off & one of her friends did some deep digging - come to find out he had married his actual girlfriend of 8 years a few months prior.
Not only did he lie & fool her, but all of their other medical school friends as well.
Master manipulator to be able to pull off living a double life like that.
While they were doing residences in separate cities, she had a gut feeling something was off & one of her friends did some deep digging - come to find out he had married his actual girlfriend of 8 years a few months prior.
Not only did he lie & fool her, but all of their other medical school friends as well.
Master manipulator to be able to pull off living a double life like that.
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#46
In a small town the husband kept telling people he had an open marriage, finally someone asked his wife about it, she was unaware of this new arrangement.
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#47
Mine is definitely a horrible one.
My ex husband had an affair while we were married and got his affair partner pregnant. Repeatedly denied the affair but having a baby doesn’t lie.
My ex husband and his affair partner named their baby the same name my ex husband and I picked out for a future child.
I also found out that my ex husband cheated on his pregnant affair partner while at a wedding of that mutual friend (mutual friend and ex husband are not friends anymore after all of this). Technically he cheated on me again too as we were still legally married at that time waiting for our court date for the divorce to be finalized.
I am beyond thankful that my ex husband and I never had kids so I was able to fully leave the relationship and never speak to him ever again.
My ex husband had an affair while we were married and got his affair partner pregnant. Repeatedly denied the affair but having a baby doesn’t lie.
My ex husband and his affair partner named their baby the same name my ex husband and I picked out for a future child.
I also found out that my ex husband cheated on his pregnant affair partner while at a wedding of that mutual friend (mutual friend and ex husband are not friends anymore after all of this). Technically he cheated on me again too as we were still legally married at that time waiting for our court date for the divorce to be finalized.
I am beyond thankful that my ex husband and I never had kids so I was able to fully leave the relationship and never speak to him ever again.
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#48
The one that happened to me this year. I broke up with my first relationship after almost 11 years this year because he went to his parents to think but secretly went on vacation. I found out because after more than 2 weeks no contact and him ignoring me I called his father to ask to talk to my bf.
After that I broke up. He cried like crazy and begged me to take him back, suddenly wanted to marry and have kids and everything but this time I didn't cave. I found out later, that he has cheated with at least 6 other women and had a full a*s relationship on another continent with another girl. She contacted me a few months ago thinking I was the ex for years because he suddenly ghosted her and she was worried. Turned out he had us both parallel for quite a while and visited her while he told me he is at his parents. He had the flights booked months before.
He sent her letters from his father's address and called her at night when I slept. At the some time he gaslighted me like crazy, telling me I was controlling and he needs more space so I always gave that to him, let him do his thing for most weekends, let him fly to Paris to visit his best friend every other month but in reality he was just cheating all the time and I had no idea lol.
The worst part was he was unemployed for half a year and I paid for everything, his food, his rent, his insurance, took care of him after a surgery and he told her that I was just a good soul and I did that although being "the ex" because of our long history. He just used me. He later even told her that the breakup (he told her that was years before) wasn't bad because he had "my best years" while I was still young and now I am used lol.
After the breakup he tried to get me back for a few months until he finally gave up. The 6 women are what I know about, I wouldn't be surprised if there are more.
After that I broke up. He cried like crazy and begged me to take him back, suddenly wanted to marry and have kids and everything but this time I didn't cave. I found out later, that he has cheated with at least 6 other women and had a full a*s relationship on another continent with another girl. She contacted me a few months ago thinking I was the ex for years because he suddenly ghosted her and she was worried. Turned out he had us both parallel for quite a while and visited her while he told me he is at his parents. He had the flights booked months before.
He sent her letters from his father's address and called her at night when I slept. At the some time he gaslighted me like crazy, telling me I was controlling and he needs more space so I always gave that to him, let him do his thing for most weekends, let him fly to Paris to visit his best friend every other month but in reality he was just cheating all the time and I had no idea lol.
The worst part was he was unemployed for half a year and I paid for everything, his food, his rent, his insurance, took care of him after a surgery and he told her that I was just a good soul and I did that although being "the ex" because of our long history. He just used me. He later even told her that the breakup (he told her that was years before) wasn't bad because he had "my best years" while I was still young and now I am used lol.
After the breakup he tried to get me back for a few months until he finally gave up. The 6 women are what I know about, I wouldn't be surprised if there are more.
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#49
My grandmother found out about my grandfather’s other wives after a crazy string of events. Infidelity is kind of my family curse.
Geneva had been married all of 12 days, excited to call her new husband, Dennis, at work. She rang his office and identified herself as Mrs. Joyce. The voice on the other side responded, Oh Hi Norma!
That quick phone call unraveled my grandpa’s entire facade and landed him in jail for bigamy. By the end of it, they found out there was at least three wives.
I’m one of Norma’s grandkids. I’ve found a lot of my mom’s missing siblings and new people pop up on Ancestry every so often. I think my grandfather was married about 5-6 times, with lots of overlap. For example, my mom and her sister are only 6 months apart in age. I’ve heard he was very charming and liked to drink.
Geneva had been married all of 12 days, excited to call her new husband, Dennis, at work. She rang his office and identified herself as Mrs. Joyce. The voice on the other side responded, Oh Hi Norma!
That quick phone call unraveled my grandpa’s entire facade and landed him in jail for bigamy. By the end of it, they found out there was at least three wives.
I’m one of Norma’s grandkids. I’ve found a lot of my mom’s missing siblings and new people pop up on Ancestry every so often. I think my grandfather was married about 5-6 times, with lots of overlap. For example, my mom and her sister are only 6 months apart in age. I’ve heard he was very charming and liked to drink.
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#50
My husband’s ex girlfriend. She cheated and had two children in quick succession with a married man…her boss. She was embarrassed to say who the real father was (obviously), so she let people assume it was my now husband while she was pregnant with the first…even though she and my husband were broken up. Problem is that her boss was Mexican and her babies looked Mexican and both she and my husband are white.
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#51
An acquaintance of mine cheated on his wife 3 weeks after their kid was born. Left her very shortly after because he “was in love” with this new gal. Just evil, trash behavior.
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#52
Hotel concierge have all the gossip! One who worked at a very expensive hotel in Paris told me about a couple on their honeymoon staying at the hotel, one night the wife came up to front desk in tears demanding to know where her husband was. Turns out he had come back to the hotel earlier that evening with another woman and booked another room. I don’t exactly know if the wife knew exactly that that’s what happened but at the very least she had an inkling that her husband was f*****g around behind her back on their honeymoon. Obviously the hotel staff can’t give out details of guests who have checked in so they couldn’t answer her question but everyone felt terrible for her.
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#53
This was almost bad and happened to me back in the day. For context, yeah, I was in a fraternity and I had been dating someone a few weeks after some friends of hers took her out to one of our parties. I was in charge of organizing an event, a "date party" where everyone brings a date and we go to a club and all that. My GF ended up having to work that night and couldn't get out of it, but we planned to meet up later. But...I needed a date, so we talked and I cleared it with her to take one of her friends (Megan) that had sort of introduced us by bring her to that party. She was seeing someone else (Dave) by that time but he's secured a date before they got together (Kara). So... I would take Megan to the party and she's hang out with Dave. Kara was cool, she just wanted to go hang with her friends and have a good time. It all seemed to work out.
Point of context: I was and always have been a bit of a jolly fat guy. At the time this all went down, I had gotten out of a long term "GF back home" scenario, but for all appearances, I was the "Mayor of the Friendzone." I was the classic "I want to find a guy like you" dude. My GF was miles out of my league and her dating me left all my friends scratching their heads as to exactly how I was pulling it off.
A few weeks later, we had a retreat - we all go out into the woods and drink until we fall down around the bonfire. A dude comes up to me and tells me "we need to talk - man to man" oh...okay, what's up, man.
"You know I respect you and love you like a brother but I have to tell you -- your girlfriend is a cheating jerk."
Lol, wut? We were both absolutely hammered, so you can imagine confusion ensured. For some reason, I was dubious/incredulous and didn't get enraged, just kinda befuddled.
Apparently, he saw who he THOUGHT was my GF (actually Megan) crawling all over Dave at a party or a hangout and because A.) He knew I had a serious GF and B.) I had taken her to the date party, that she was my GF. Eventually we worked it out and had a laugh (and more booze.)
I eventually married her and Megan was a bridesmaid. Still married 28 years later.
Point of context: I was and always have been a bit of a jolly fat guy. At the time this all went down, I had gotten out of a long term "GF back home" scenario, but for all appearances, I was the "Mayor of the Friendzone." I was the classic "I want to find a guy like you" dude. My GF was miles out of my league and her dating me left all my friends scratching their heads as to exactly how I was pulling it off.
A few weeks later, we had a retreat - we all go out into the woods and drink until we fall down around the bonfire. A dude comes up to me and tells me "we need to talk - man to man" oh...okay, what's up, man.
"You know I respect you and love you like a brother but I have to tell you -- your girlfriend is a cheating jerk."
Lol, wut? We were both absolutely hammered, so you can imagine confusion ensured. For some reason, I was dubious/incredulous and didn't get enraged, just kinda befuddled.
Apparently, he saw who he THOUGHT was my GF (actually Megan) crawling all over Dave at a party or a hangout and because A.) He knew I had a serious GF and B.) I had taken her to the date party, that she was my GF. Eventually we worked it out and had a laugh (and more booze.)
I eventually married her and Megan was a bridesmaid. Still married 28 years later.
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#54
Arnold Schwazenegger knocking up his maid and wife, both of whom were both pregnant at the same time.
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#55
The Michigan Wolverines had sent some dude to the sidelines of opposing teams practices to study their in-game signals. This guy would were disguises consisting of fake mustaches and whatnot. The worst part? Absolutely no reprecussions when they were caught. Vile.
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#56
My friend was dating this girl who was studying abroad in our country for about a year and a half, before he went abroad to continue his studies, the girl became quite close to the family to the point where she was staying with the family, and the family started helping her out financialy including taking her to a psychiatrist and buying her food etc. Turns out the girl was cheating on my friend by renting hotel rooms and sleeping with this random dude she met on a dating app.
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