When someone really wants you in their life they will place you there. There will be no need for you to fight for a spot. Often times you have settled and didn't realize it until you were deep in the relationship. You start to realize that the person you've given your heart to has been treating the relationship like he can care less whether you are in his life or not.
One of the most frustrating positions you, as a good woman, could ever find yourself in, is in a relationship with a man who makes you feel like you’re still single. Being in a relationship with a man that has no time for you, shows you no affection, and makes you feel like, half the time, you’re still single…what’s the point? I can think of a lot of good reasons why you would want to be in a relationship but being lonely isn’t one of them. Never make a man a priority in your life when he clearly treats you like an option in his.
Never chase love, affection, or attention. If it is not given freely by the other person, it's not worth having.
If he really loved you he wouldn't make you feel like you are never his first choice. You always come second to everyone and everything else. You are deserving of real love and affection from a man who is really into you. Who feels like losing you is not an option for him. Therefore he will do what's necessary to make you feel like you are the only woman in his world, not just by what he says, but by the way he treats you.
"I've learned that who doesn’t look for you, doesn’t miss you and who doesn’t miss you doesn’t care for you… that destiny determines who enters your life but you decide who stays… that the truth hurts only once and a lie every time you remember it. There are three things in life that leave and never return: words, time and opportunities… therefore, value whoever values you and don’t treat as a priority whoever treats you as an option."
