Every relationship we get involved in will teach us a lesson. While the lessons can be hurtful they will also make you wiser and stronger. Someday, you'll get tired of accepting the bare minimum, and if they aren't lucky enough to step up before that time comes, it'll be someone else giving you the type of effort you deserve. When you get tired of getting your heart broken you start to take action by doing the following:
1. YOU NO LONGER GIVE YOUR HEART OUT EASILY.
You no longer fall for the first man that shows you a little bit of attention. You allow yourself the time to get to know them and see what they are all about before you conclude whether they are worth your time or not.
2. I WILL NOT DATE SOMEONE WHO I CAN'T TRUST.
Too many times you've dated and stayed in a relationship with someone you did not trust in hopes that within time you would be able to even though they gave you every reason not to. You now refuse to date someone you can't trust because life has taught you that a relationship without trust will never work.
3. NO LONGER AFRAID TO WALK AWAY.
You can have love for him and still leave, because your happiness is more important than his broken promises. If you are not being loved properly you have no problems walking away.
4. WON'T PUT UP WITH MIXED SIGNALS
It's either they want you or they don't. You no longer deal with men who don't know what they want. You don't need that type of complication in your life because you've learned that when a man really wants you in his life he will put you there.
5. YOU RATHER BE SINGLE THAN IN THE WRONG RELATIONSHIP.
You been through enough wrong relationships and a few heartbreaks to deal with the same nonsense. At this point you rather remain single and wait for the man who will love you with the same type of love you give. Anything less than that is a waste of your time.
6. YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND LUST.
Too many times you allowed your flesh to take control and it led you to believe it was love. There is so much more to love than having someone laying in your bed.
7. DONE MAKING SOMEONE A PRIORITY WHILE BEING AN OPTION.
You lost yourself way too many times being consumed in loving someone who treated you like an option. You became obsessed with making them happy and made it all about them. You now refuse to lose yourself trying to love someone who treats you like you are replaceable.
