Men will continue to make excuses for why they can't be with you while still getting all of the benefits of a relationship without having to commit for as long as you allow it. When a man really wants you, he will find a way to show you, he will find a way to make time, he will want you to know for a fact that he wants you. When a man really wants you, it's extremely hard to resist the urge to let you know it. When he doesn't his list of excuses will only get bigger. Live in reality, not in denial.
Don't waste your good years on a man who loves you with his words but not his actions. Women have the tendency to fall in love with a man's potential instead of the man himself and so they hang on to the relationship far longer than they should waiting for him to reach it. Men don't neglect who they see a future with. If he's not making time and effort without you having to ask, he's using your 'investment in his potential' as practice for the next woman he really wants after you!
Being a good woman means that sometimes you have to accept that some men just aren't ready for that real type of love, and move on. Otherwise a year later you will regret staying in a relationship that was based solely on your love and not his and that alone will drain your joy. Men feed lovesick women crumbs, and these women make a meal of it. In reality, what is love? Love isn’t running back from one girl to you, because he can’t decide. Love isn’t taking months to decide if he wants monogamy with you. Love isn’t a man pouring out his heart about how important you are only after he got caught doing something wrong. Love isn’t that two week span when you don’t argue and you feel like everything is right, love lasts! The problem is that too many women don’t understand what love is, just what a man tells her it is. “Girl you know I love you, why you think I’m over here instead of over there!” Women in bad relationships have to be convinced they are loved, because they don’t actually feel it. A man can give you all these examples about what he does for you, how he puts you first, but the reason he has to give you proof is because he knows you don’t feel it. He loves you because you do things for him; like a Monkey loves that trainer who comes with candy. But he’s not IN LOVE and your intuition is telling you that, LOVE IS AS LOVE DOES LADIES!
