It's better to have nobody than to have someone who is half there, or doesn't want to be there. You'll lose yourself trying to hold on to someone who doesn't care about losing you. It hurts to let go, but it hurts more holding on to someone who no longer feels the same about you. When someone treats you like they don't care believe them.
Moving on is not easy, specially when you are walking away from someone who promised you forever. Walking away from all future plans that were made and accepting that none of those plans will happen. The hardest thing for anyone to do is to accept that their partner no longer loves them, don't make any excuses for them. You know they don't by the way they treat you. Stop reminiscing on the good times and learn to let go, holding on to what the relationship once was will keep you a prisoner of what no longer exist.
Cut them off completely. The only way to start the healing process is to remove yourself from their life. That means blocking them from any and everything that will cause you to try and contact them. Delete their number, social medias, and anything else that will have you revisiting those times in idle moments.
Remember you are better off being without the man that no longer loves you. No longer do you have to put up with the disrespect or cheating. "Stop breaking your own heart by trying to make a relationship work that clearly isn’t meant to work. You can’t force someone to care about you. You can’t force someone to be loyal. You can’t force someone to be the person you need them to be. Sometimes the person you want most is the person you’re best without. You got to understand some things are meant to happen, but just not meant to be. Some things are meant to come in your life, just not meant to stay. Don’t lose yourself by trying to fix what’s meant to stay broken. You can’t get the relationship you need from someone who’s not ready to give it to you. And you might not understand WHY NOW, but I promise you, your future will always bring understanding of why things didn’t work out. TRUST ME. Don’t put your happiness on hold for someone who isn’t holding on to you. Some chapters just have to close without closure."
