Being cheated on is a horrible experience that nobody should wish even on their very worst enemies. Your partner hasn’t just broken your trust, but they’ve also broken your heart. And while some couples do find ways to heal and move forward together, many other relationships end up breaking down beyond repair.
User u/OkCheesecake7067 sparked a very open, honest, and vulnerable discussion on AskReddit after asking everyone who has ever been cheated on to share their stories. Scroll down for these internet users’ tales about how they found out that their significant others were unfaithful.
#41
She told me. Though initially she wasn't truthful about how many times it occurred. She then ended the relationship.
Kinda feel like she couldve easily done those things the other way around and it would've been way less bad.
Kinda feel like she couldve easily done those things the other way around and it would've been way less bad.
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14points
#42
The first time: he had a contact in his phone called "HQ" and I couldn't figure out what headquarters he needed stored, but then one day he got a text from that number and I pieced it together as "Head Queen"
He'd been texting her reminiscing about their prior sexcapades and she happened to reply at an inopportune time for him since I saw it.
She and I had a 3 hour phone call after that (she was his ex and he even introduced us on a trip to his hometown one time) where she told me how he cheated on his other girlfriend with her as well. Both scummy people. He still likes to share "his side" on reddit once in a while.
Second guy worked with the girl he cheated with and started talking about her a lot, and when I asked him about her he told me she "probably has a green v****a" as if that would convince me he wasn't into her. He started picking up extra shifts at his job and buying her coffee on his way in with my credit card. .
He'd been texting her reminiscing about their prior sexcapades and she happened to reply at an inopportune time for him since I saw it.
She and I had a 3 hour phone call after that (she was his ex and he even introduced us on a trip to his hometown one time) where she told me how he cheated on his other girlfriend with her as well. Both scummy people. He still likes to share "his side" on reddit once in a while.
Second guy worked with the girl he cheated with and started talking about her a lot, and when I asked him about her he told me she "probably has a green v****a" as if that would convince me he wasn't into her. He started picking up extra shifts at his job and buying her coffee on his way in with my credit card. .
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13points
#43
She went out with some friends and I discovered that she had taken the bottle of lube with her.
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13points
#44
I was already getting some Red Flags, backing off when I went to kiss her, keeping her phone on her 24/7, keeping it face down most of the time.
When she ended it, she came up with some BS excuse that she "wasn't seeing the kids enough" (Not mine) She wasn't seeing the kids any less when I was around haha.
Pretty much confirmed when she was in a relationship two weeks later and kept deflecting the question when o called her out on it.
When she ended it, she came up with some BS excuse that she "wasn't seeing the kids enough" (Not mine) She wasn't seeing the kids any less when I was around haha.
Pretty much confirmed when she was in a relationship two weeks later and kept deflecting the question when o called her out on it.
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12points
#45
They really withdrew from me for about a month and stopped initiating anything. I had a suspicion they were cheating. A friend texted me that they saw them on a dating app. My ex dumped me later that day. I am not sure if they decided to just end it, got wind that I found out, or something else.
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10points