When you really love someone you do everything in your power to make them happy. You give the love and respect needed to make it work. Regardless of what excuse they come up with as to why they are treating you badly it is not love. Love doesn't disrespect, lie, cheat, nor does it abuse. When someone treats you badly, it is a reflection of their character. Don't let your Loyalty turn into slavery. Loyalty doesn't mean you're crying at night. Loyalty doesn't mean you're constantly being mistreated. Loyalty doesn't mean you're being used or abused....Loyalty means receiving the love you deserve. Sometimes you have to accept the truth and stop wasting your time on a man who only loves you with words but fails to show you through his actions!
A man knows what type of woman he can disrespect. If you are being disrespected but all you do about it is cry, argue, and stay in the relationship; You're the type he knows he can disrespect. He starts to think that just because you love him he can walk all over you. A man that really loves you will never test you to see how far he can push you, but rather be busy loving you the right way. A man that really loves you will never be the source of your pain. He will be the reason you smile even when he is not around. A man that really loves you will appreciate you and not take your love for granted.
Every woman desires for her man to make her feel beautiful not the opposite. Every woman deserves a man who will proudly praise her in front of other women, not the one who praises other women in front of her. When a man really loves you he will never neglect you. There is a difference between a man who is busy and a man who doesn't care. Being busy will never stop a man from reminding his woman how much she means to him, a man who doesn't will fail at complimenting you but have the time to compliment every other woman he sees. If he really loved you he would take your feelings and relationship seriously. Every woman has a breaking point and you shouldn't have to feel like you're losing it. A woman who is being properly loved will have a glow to her. Don't allow the man in your life to make you feel like you are not good enough, you are more than enough. Stop fighting to be loved.
Why fight over someone who is not fighting for you? Why allow yourself to keep being hurt by someone who is not hurting for you? Why keep giving your life to someone, who will never do right by you? Why keep putting yourself through being hurt & abused, by someone who only wants to use you? Why keep waiting on someone, who is always leaving you? Why keep trying to love someone, who keeps showing you that they don't love you? Why keep asking why, when you already know deep down inside that in order for your light to truly shine you have to say goodbye & cry your last cry, so the world can again see you smile. You are deserving of a good man with good intentions, who will handle your heart with care. Don't settle!
