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And so here we are today, with a holiday that has traveled from murky Roman origins to Christian martyrdom to Chaucer’s poetry to a Hallmark aisle near you. The version most of us celebrate now, with all its roses, heart-shaped boxes, and dinner reservations, is a surprisingly recent invention.

But while the Western world largely follows the same script every year, other countries have taken the holiday in entirely different directions.

In Japan, for example, Valentine’s Day is characterized by a structured gift-giving custom in which women give chocolate to men. Honmei-choco conveys romantic interest, while giri-choco, literally “obligation chocolate,” is offered to friends, colleagues, and acquaintances as a gesture of appreciation. One month later, on March 14, White Day invites men to reciprocate with gifts, often of higher value.

Meanwhile, some countries treat Valentine’s Day as a day for platonic love, not just romance. Finland and Estonia celebrate the day primarily as a celebration of friendship, known as Ystävänpäivä and Sõbrapäev respectively, focusing on appreciating friends and family through cards and small gifts rather than romantic gestures.

In Denmark, lovers exchange pressed white snowdrop flowers, and a charming tradition called “gaekkebrev” involves sending a witty anonymous poem to a loved one. If the recipient correctly guesses the sender’s name, they win an Easter egg later in the year.

What’s remarkable about Valentine’s Day is how it has managed to mean something different to almost everyone who celebrates it. Across centuries, continents, and cultures, the holiday has been reinvented again and again, depending on who was observing it at the time.

And whatever form it takes, it’s led to the same simple place: finding a way to tell the people in your life that you care about them.