Having a good sense of humor is one of the most valuable life skills you can have. It plays a role in nearly every aspect of life—90% of men and 81% of women say it’s the most important quality in a partner, it’s essential for being a successful leader, and studies have even shown it can enhance cancer treatments. But making people laugh isn’t always easy unless it comes naturally, which raises the question: can it actually be improved?
Bored Panda got in touch with Nigerian actor and stand-up comedian Emmanuel Ahiaba, also known as MC Youngee, to find out if becoming funnier is an impossible task. According to him, it’s not only achievable but surprisingly simple.
“It’s not rocket science,” MC Youngee says. “Being funny isn’t as difficult as people make it out to be.” He sees the biggest hurdle as the mental barriers we create for ourselves. Often, he explains, overthinking or fearing judgment holds us back from experimenting with our sense of humor or trying out new jokes. Instead of shying away from improvement, he encourages taking a curious approach and giving yourself the freedom to explore what makes others laugh.
“When you’re too sensitive, you create a wall for yourself,” he notes. “That wall stops you from doing what you want and expressing yourself freely.”
MC Youngee himself never thought comedy would be in his future—at least not until he was a student in secondary school and crossed paths with MC Longs, a seasoned professional in the field.
MC Longs urged him to give it a try, but Youngee resisted for the longest time, unsure if it was the right fit. Eventually, though, he gave in—and now that it’s his career, he doesn’t regret it for a second.
Looking back, he’s thankful that MC Longs convinced him to take that leap. “I’ll always be grateful to him for pushing me to discover my hidden potential,” he says.
MC Youngee thinks comedy is one of the best ways to share your thoughts on any topic without being afraid to be cheeky or witty—because, in the end, it’s all just a joke. “I love the freedom of expression that comes with it,” he says. “And knowing that, as a comedian, you’re also a social commentator whose input can help change the world.”
However, if you’re still finding your footing with your sense of humor, Youngee suggests avoiding saying anything offensive. Comedy is a delicate balance, and pulling off a risky joke depends entirely on how you deliver it.
“That’s the key—it has to be done right,” he says. “If you present the joke the right way, it won’t offend people because they’ll understand it’s meant to make them laugh. The intention isn’t to hurt anybody.”
If you want to come across as funnier among your friends, Youngee recommends creating more inside jokes. “That’s the easiest way to make them laugh,” he says. “You already share experiences and interests that are unique to your group. Bringing up those relatable details will help you grow closer.”
