So, there’s a page on Facebook called Parenting Memes, which, as you might have guessed already, is all about parenting and memes. The description says that raising children is a journey—one that we all can laugh about.
That is very true considering that even child-free folks tend to get a good chuckle at parenting memes, but also among the 11,000 followers the page has, there has to be at least a good handful of folks who are not really parents.
Parenting isn’t something that you can define in clear-cut terms. It’s an experience, a journey of sorts that’s personal to every parent. As such, there is no good or bad way to parent kids as there are just too many variables. However, there are some common factors and aspects to consider that would increase your chances of being more good at it.
First up, work on creating a happy home.
There are many ways to go about it, but some suggest defining it in terms of love, emotional security, conversation, validation, responsibilities, time outside, and opportunities to play and learn. And if it’s provided with a sufficient degree of freedom, without bothersome parental micromanaging, it can get even better.
Things like small banter, spending time doing stuff together, and showing support help kids develop emotional security and empathy, all the while allowing you to bond, which only elevates the experience.
And, yeah, that’s more or less it. No parent is perfect, but it doesn’t take much to provide heaps of positivity and goodness to them. Listen, tell them you understand, tell them you love them, show them stuff, foster creativity through boredom and guidance, all that jazz—it doesn’t take much to give them that.
On top of that, avoid pitfalls. The biggest ones to avoid are overscheduling kids’ activities, micromanaging them, refusing to recognize their struggles, as well as modeling unhealthy responses to things like stress, boundary violations and critique.
