Hey Pandas With A Disability Or Disorder, What’s The Worst Thing Someone Has Said To You About It? (Closed)

I had braces and everyone called me metal mouth, I had depression for a full 2 months before they got in trouble.

Definitely didn't punch anyone...

I have AD/HD, depression, a very short attention span, and I'm only 13. Nothing I do seems to please my parents and my only friends are just like me, sad, alone, misunderstood. My parents take us on trips thinking it will relieve the tension when all it does is stress me out. I don't want all this stuff, I want to feel loved, understood, and wanted. the only people that understand are my friends. I tell them more than I tell my parents and I only see my friends on Monday, Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday(at school) we have become so close that if we don't see one of them at school and don't hear from them for 24 hours we start panicking, spamming "are you ok" messages on every way of contact, asking around if anyone has seen/heard from them, trying to figure out when the last time we heard from them ( I really need to stop watching/listening to true crime shows/podcasts ), trying to bribe them to ansere our panicked messages(candy, chips, etc) once we panicked all because one was sick and had changed her number but forgot to tell us. like the song...
until the very next day, bum bum bum bum bududum , when the girl walked up to the school that day, and she said to her friend who she had worried away "hay!" bum bum bum "are you ok?" and the friend said "yeah I just changed my number and forgot to tell you huh that's a bummer!" and they wattled away wattle, wattle, and they wattled away wattle wattle wattle .

I have autism. My school was ok with me having certain accommodations like going into the hall when it’s too loud. But this one teacher decided to bully me. He would just try to embarrass me in front of the class by using my homework as an example of what not to do. One day I didn’t know the answer to a question he asked me in front of the class so I said I didn’t know he thought that wasn’t good enough and decided that I had to give him an answer so I was now being pressured to think fast in front of the class and potentially get the answer wrong and I got super stressed out so I just said I didn’t know. Later he came over to my desk and took my math book to over explain the problem that we hat to work on. I took my book back and said I already understood. He sent me out into the hall. He then came out and said if I didn’t talk to him he was going to have to have a meeting with me and the principal and him and my mom. I just said talk to my mom. He insisted. I went back to the classroom packed my stuff and left.

I also think he is homophobic.(current teacher)
I hate him
Sorry it was so long.

PTSD, Depression, Anxiety and Panic attacks after my 3 y.o. son died of cancer.

At his funeral, someone said: Well, at least you are young enough to have more kids.

OCD, here.

It's Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, NOT Obsessive Cleaning Disorder. I have had thoughts I don't want to think, bad habits that are nearly impossible to break (I've tried), and nobody believing me because of stereotypes. Not all of us obsess over things being even, and it is rare for someone to compulsively clean.

With people from my school faking OCD and other illnesses, especially tics, it makes it hard to be taken seriously. I had a therapist skip over the discussion when I brought it up so I have to fight my battles on my own without help. Stop romanticizing mental illnesses and let the ones suffering get help.

I've got a variety of physical conditions and hands down, the worst thing anyone has ever said to me was, "You shouldn't breed." While my joint hypermobility is inherited, 90% of people who have my condition are pain free and don't suffer as I do from joint pain and dislocations, so chances are any kids I have will just be bendy and floppy.

Another bad one was that I'd never find someone who wanted to be with a "disabled person" (the words they used were far worse).

Jokes on them; I met a wonderful guy who understands everything I go through cause he's got the same disability. We got engaged last year and we're expecting our first child come November.

Social anxiety, severe depression, struggled with self harm since I was very young, kidney & bladder problems, then diagnosed in recent years with a personality disorder. Struggled all my working life to keep all the former hidden from everyone. Over 25 years of work at the same employer then suddenly told by really horrible new manager that we can’t cope with your mental health so we can’t employ you anymore.

I often wonder why I am still here but thanks to my moggies for being here for me when no bugger else has been.

I have a large port-wine stain birthmark on my forearm and hand. In elementary school kids teased me about it constantly. Everyone knew I liked cats, so one boy teased that my arm was red because I licked it like a cat. Almost 30 years ago and I still remember that remark vividly :(

Aspie here. Worst thing I've ever heard from someone about it was that they didn't believe I have Asperger's because "[I] don't act like [an autistic person]". Way to be ignorant, pigeonhole someone, AND be insensitive all in one package. All the worse, this person was my supervisor too... They were willing to violate the ADA and not provide reasonable accommodation just to validate that opinion. That was truly an awful time in my life.

“You’re to happy to have depression”. Ever heard of repressing emotions?

I have ADHD, tics, and DID, I get told to stop faking it, just focus, and to stop trying to be a charity case, that i am not a healthy look for humanity, the worst thing someone had said to me was to suck it up and stop being dramatic that if I focused and prayed enough, it will all go away. please don't use your religion to say things like this its very harmful to people.

I'm autistic (not diagnosed until I was 15).
My teachers would yell at me for stimming since I was obviously "not paying attention and then yell at me for not paying attention when I was focusing on not stimming...

i have ADHD Insomnia and Anxiety and i am adopted (born in korea) , so naturally i get made fun of:
"chinese/japanese boy" every single person in my school, this hurts a lot more then you think
"sloth" every single person in my school, they make fun of me bc i can't sleep and im slow when im tired
"stop eating!" my teacher 4th grade, i also, idk why but snaking helps me focus, so i did'nt focus and got terrible grades
i am 1 out of 2 korean people in my school so we get A: shipped and B: called
젠장, korean for s**t
i have some friends that are nice so it helps a little bit though

I have recurrent pericarditis that means I have to self-inject medication daily to calm my immune system down. I get frequent headaches, nausea, pain and constant fatigue. After one bad spell, four days in bed, a trip to the hospital, and not eating for nearly a week, my friend told me that would be handy to have that, to help her lose weight. I was dumbstruck.

It’s the overwhelming fatigue and pain that drags you down, but otherwise look healthy, but according to some (including family) I’m lazy, or need to do more, have you tried yoga, etc. But you were fine yesterday? They have no idea about post exertional malaise or care to listen to an explanation either.

To everyone else with rare, autoimmune diseases, have you thought about trying yoga?? 😝

Since the very young age of 11 I've been suffering from anxiety and depression all the time. People keep saying to me how "quit with the fake depression everybody knows girls can't get depression" and "Why do you cry all the time?" And basically things along the lines of "crybaby" I have so much pressure on my shoulders about being the smart girl. Everyone comes to me for my homework answers or my partner in group protects, and before you ask yes I'm the one doing all the work, and you know how extra credit assignments are optional? My teachers make me do extra credit assignments as homework because of my straight A grades, and they wonder why I'm always so tired and stressed to the point where I'm crying.

I am deaf since birth.

One day, I went to a job fair. I had an ASL interpreter with me, so other people could tell I was deaf. I approached a booth only to read the job description that was placed on the table there. I didn't get a chance to read it because a woman at the booth immediately walked up to me and said, "I'm sorry but we don't hire deaf people."

I have multiple neuropathies (cranial, peripheral, autonomic) due to a demyelinating disorder. I've heard: 1. Why don't to watch your sugars? A lot of sugar makes diabetes worse. (I don't have diabetes, in fact my blood sugar and A1C is always on the low side). 2. I already told you that, why didn't you remember? (I can literally forget what I'm doing while I'm doing it). 3. You've been there before, why can't you remember the way? (I have gotten lost in my own bloody living room. I can tell you, I'm not doing it on purpose and being scared like that is NOT fun).

Both of my children are on the spectrum. My son also has TS. People have asked him why he is making that noise. That is generally okay but it's the WAY that some ask it. Curiosity is great and he loves to inform people, but those that snicker or get angry.. Just no, stop, please just stop. As for my daughter, she is on the lower functioning scale of the spectrum and I had someone seriously say to me "Why don't you just teach that thing something?" This was after I apologized to them for her giggling loudly in a restaurant. She had recently had a cleft repaired and was still learning how to regulate her voice. She didn't even talk until she was nearly 5, so hearing her giggle was like heaven to me.

People just p!ss me off sometimes.

“I was born with weak bones and a weak immune system, so altogether in injuries and broken bones I’ve spent about a year in the hospital... I don’t like going to the hospital anymore because I get reminded of my appendicitis surgery that nearly went wrong.”

“But you didn’t die. Stop whining about it unless you came down with cancer or something.”

I have ADHD and i had a friend who said behind my back, "she doesn't even have ADHD she's not even hyper I'm so hyper I actually have ADHD not her" I'm not hyper at school because i have medication. It's so annoying when people think they have ADHD cause they are hyper. Its not just being hyper its loads of other things too.

I have many diagnoses but to be succinct, I will only address the comment that was worst:
Regarding my depression: "we'll go to a cancer ward at a children's hospital and then you will see others have it worse."
What made this the most hurtful was that it was my mother saying this to me when she knew I was suicidal. She then thought it was an appropriate time to bring up how she resented me for saying "dada" instead of "mama" when I was first learning to talk (I was in my mid 20's when this conversation happened).