Hey Pandas, What’s The Most Sexist Thing Anyone Has Said Or Done To You? (Closed)

This guy Emilio is totally against all guy sexism. Yeah, im saying his real name because he doesnt deserve to be anonymous. He straight up said "women belong in the kitchen" and repeatedly tells me to make him a sandwich. Like wow, you're too weak to make one on your own?

Ok so it was summer and I was eating popsicles.Since I have sensitive teeth I put the whole popsicle in my mouth and use my back teeth to break off the sides.My mom was like stop that eat it like a lady.I was like 'the f**k' and tried to "eAt iT LikE A LaDy".But that a not all by accident I kept putting the whole popsicle in my mouth and so she showed me a Fox news video on YouTube and the guy eating the popsicle did the same f*****g thing as me.So I said "why does he get to eat it like that" and this bitch says "BeCaUsE hE Is a mAn".

When I was in high school, our school district had a deal with the local ski resort to offer discount ski lift tickets and lessons to students. Surprisingly, my father signed me up. We'd load onto a school bus, head up to ski for 5 hours and then come back down as the sun was disappearing.

As we came down one evening, there was a flat bed semi that pulled up along side us on the freeway. The truck bed was loaded with smashed cars, flattened by a wrecking yard.

This guy, Evan, yells over to his friend "Hey look!" Points to wrecked cars. "The result of women driver's, every one of them!" Not a smart thing for him to say since every seat around him was filled with girls. Four hands came out of nowhere and smacked him.

Tw: mention of sexual assault (worse)Oh I have so many (afab) but I’m just going to do one for now. I was discussing abortion with my friend and this guy (baptist pastors son) was like “oh abortion should be illegal”. I asked him why and he said “kids need to earn the consequences of their actions.” I then asked him if babies were alive before they were born and he said no. I was super confused and said “ well what if the girl was raped” and he said “she just has to deal with it.”
BOY HAS THE NERVE TO SAY HE ISNT SEXIST

I was told I was a rapist because I'm a man.

Had an older man (60+) follow me around in a public swimming pool. He kept the conversation going far too long and at the time I was too polite and shy to tell him to stop. He was saying weird things like how he hated his daughters boyfriend and stuff. Asked me if I was 21, I said no. Then he said, “really, because you have the body of a 21 year old.” I was 14.

I'm a female locksmith; have been for a long time. Arrived on-site to a vehicle lockout. Simple job, straightforward. Keys were locked inside the rental UHaul. I am in uniform, unloading all my gear. As I approach the man and his vehicle, he asks where my guy is. I stopped, confused. I am the one who had answered the phone, took his info, and told him that based on his location, I would be there in 10 minutes, since he was right around the corner from the shop. He was not having it that I could do the job and kept insisting that he would wait for a man to come. So I started loading my gear up and said I would send my guy when he came on shift at 4 p.m. (currently 8 a.m.). The man's adult son started pleading with me to do the job and for his dad to be quiet. I said only if dad was okay with that, and payment was upfront. Finally, the dad agreed. That whole exchange took maybe 15 minutes. I unlocked the UHaul and then loaded up and was back in my own truck in 60 seconds flat. Their faces were PRICELESS! Why do people like him like to waste time with their assumptions or ignorant opinions?

I was doing a project at school on what I wanted to be when I grew up. I said a scientist. My male teacher came up behind me and told me I could never be a scientist because I was a girl. This was in kindergarten. I am currently getting a PhD in Agricultural sciences.

I had been washing dishes and had gotten my shirt pretty wet. The creepy restaurant owner (who did nothing but sit at the bar and play chess with himself) told me that I should wear my bikini to work the next day. I was barely 18.

One ex-bf (who claimed himself a feminist) used to get mad if I changed light bulbs or fixed stuff in my apartment. He said me doing that made him feel "less of a man" as those were male tasks (?). Also, I have always had amazing spatial sense. He didn't. He would get lost in the kitchen. But if he was taking me to a place and he was a bit lost, he said I shouldn't say anything because that would make him feel "less of a man". Younger naive me let all that pass, and we ended up breaking up because he said he felt "less" because I had my life sorted (job, apartment, car) and he didn't (I didn't mind to be honest). Interesting... do really men feel "less of a man" if a woman can manage well by herself or is better in certain things? Do men feel the same if they compared themselves with other men as well?

1 ,stopped wearing a bra when I graduated hs. Men randomly grabbing my breast because I dont wear a bra. I'm old now, doesn't happen anymore!
2, being told: you'd be pretty if you didn't wear glasses, wtf?
3, car dealer, looking for a cargo van, I'd done the research, and test drives and knew exsctly what I wanted. Salesman calls me up and offers me a box truck. I told him that was not what I asked for. Went to another dealer and they found what I wanted.
( this happened again recently, was hit by someone failing to stop at a stop sign and failures to yield right of way. Female agent I talked to completly disregarded what I told her I needed in regards to a rental. But I think that's just dealing with ins company.
4, the worst, we had safety groups by department where I worked, after we finished the weeks long tutorial, the company would take us out to a nice dinner.
So we go and are grouped with another department. The following week, one of the guys in the othef department, who had Never said a word to me before, including at the dinner, comes up to me and tells me he "
Wants to take me to Atlanta. And show me off". I just walked away. I'm sure I came up with several retorts later, but wtf?
Why can't people just treat everybody like humans?

Me and my mum are always outside gardening, doing stuff with our animals, building stuff, etc. when ever people see our many tools they ask my dad what hes been making lately. like??? and if my mum says one of her kids helps her, they say, ahhh yes (older brother) would be a very good helper! no. my brother and dad would stay inside and be on their computers. not help outside. (just saying there is nothing bad with staying inside and not helping outside, its just the sexism that i hate)

Every adult I know always tells me that I'll be such a great mom and that my kids will be so nice. I have already told them that I have no interest in children, but since i was AFAB they for some reason expect me to have children. I so badly wish I could look my parents in the eyes and say "The bloodline ends with me" but I have siblings who want kids so I CANT.
And whenever we get gifts (For like birthdays and stuff) my brothers and cousins get cool things like RC cars and drones and video games, while I get a bath and lotion set, a makeup kit, clothes, you get the idea. Like, I don't want all this crap. I want an RC car. I want a drone. I enjoy video games too.

I was doing my practicum and was assigned to assist an older man in his work and learn from him.
First day I walk into the office he completely ignored me while I was standing aside like a fool and after half an hour proceeded to tell me (as if he had just noticed me) that I can go, because he's not working with women.

My time to shine. On my team the girls got banned from wearing a certain brand of swim suit because it was inappropriate to the old men who swam in the pool. Keep in mind we are ALWAYS in the water so they have to be looking to see it. Good times.

I work for a furniture store, my job includes assembling furniture, one time I was putting a kitchen table together, when a male customer comes in, he proceeds to get irate over the fact that a "woman" is putting furniture together, and how he would never buy anything from my store because it was assembled by a woman, and he couldn't guarantee that it wouldn't fall apart. I just looked at him, said fine, I guess I won't see you later.

I was 22 and ex BF was 19; he told my mom he would marry me if I lost weight. I'm 5'6" and was 120lbs at the time. HOT!

I work in a newsagents and I had one regular, who was drunk at the time, make an inappropriate comment about my chest. Also, occasionally, foreign men, usually visitors to my town, can be rude, abrupt and demanding to me yet completely civil to my male colleague.

When I was in the Navy, I was 19 and married at the time. My Division Chief (Chief Petty Officer, essentially my boss's boss) had heard some rather races rumors about me. We happened to be walking to my shop at the same time.

He looked over at me and said "so, I heard you've slept with half the men on the base... when do you plan to get to my half? *disgusting chuckle*". He was very pleased with himself for being "humorous" or something.

I looked over at him, aghast! I replied "I'm married and have a child, so never. I'd appreciate it if you could not help spread malicious rumors about me, any further. It's bad enough that you accost ME in this fashion, but to insult me in the same breath is just appalling, coming from a senior enlisted person!"

He turned red, whipped around and went back to the main building in the opposite direction we were headed. Apparently he was only going the same direction as me because he felt the need to unload that gem upon me, undetected or without witnesses or whatever.

He later filed a complaint of insubordination against me.

I was wearing black and a woman came up to me and said "Sweetheart, pink is what girls wear." The worst thing was that I felt masculine, so that just made it worse.
I replied with "I'm a boy." and she said, "So you're either a t***** or a f**."