Hey Pandas, What’s The Most Sexist Thing Anyone Has Said Or Done To You? (Closed)

Home Depot in Baltimore. I ask an employee where the shovels are located. He looks around and says, “Where’s your husband?” I told him that I had murdered my husband for making sexist comments and that’s why I needed the shovel. Also, could he help me load the heavy gauge plastic and bags of lyme into my Subaru.

Long story short I went to purchase my first off the lot brand new car. I was running off of like 8 hours of sleep in 3 days and had just come off my third double in a row, so patience was not a virtue I possessed at the moment. I went up to the sales man and said "I am here for a (year / model) car. Manuel transmission in ANY color. Any color at all EXCEPT silver. What does this idiot bring me too? An automatic silver (year / model). I snapped. I was like are you serious? He said (I s**t you not) well this car has a CVT it works like... I cut him off. It's a continual Variable transmission it's "stick" for pussies who don't know how to drive stick. I know wtf it is. I don't want it. Just because I have a pair of these *points to chest doesn't mean I don't know what I want. I was raised by a mechanic. I bet I know more about the cars on the lot than you do. So give me what I want. He was like "ummm we don't have any manual transmissions" I told him well you could've opened with that and it doesn't negate the fact you still brought me to a silver one when I asked for any other color. WHY??? if there's a car salesman reading this, quit trying to pull one over on a female. Most of us know exactly what we want. We have done our research and we pay attention. Females like me, love to get their hands dirty and can wrench on our own vehicles. Just stop.

When I (respectfully)corrected a former bosses math in front of a room full of other high ranking males in the company, he turned to face me in his chair, did a double hand point to his crotch and told me to “stop talking and sit on this” everyone else started laughing and when they could see I was hurt and embarrassed I was told to get used to it or get out... I got out

I was cleaning the play dough off the carpet in the church hall after preschool had finished. A church elder stood in the doorway chuckling so I looked up. “That what I like to see, a women in her place on her knees.”

I was fixing our lawn mower in the driveway (bad starter and questionable coil). Our elderly neighbor came over and told me I needed to "leave that for my husband before I screw it up." and "That's a man's job, you best leave it alone."
For the record, I'm a mechanic, my husband is very much not.

She grabbed my junk to see how much I had going on. This was my apartment manager, and it was in the middle of a game of pool in a bar. It doesn't always go both ways, but sometimes it does.

I volunteered as a tutor at a high risk (graduation rate less than 50%) high school twice a week after their classes let out. I had a teacher come in after classes one day and tell me to stick to science and math because men can't understand sensitive subjects like language arts and home econ. I asked her if the kids I was helping were doing better. She said yes but they must be getting help somewhere else.

Manager at my first job said he really liked me waist-length hair. I thanked him, and he told me that it would be great to hold onto while he behind me ramming his d**k into me. I was 16.

I was 13 (i’m now 14) and i was wearing a tight sorts dress to school. Random kid walks by me and says he wants to shove his d*ck down my throat. i hate men

This happened a few months ago, in fact in December 2020. It was my sister's wedding, so many women from my village came to our house, and while I am helping putting the jugs for dinner, I heard one of them asking my aunt (my late father's sister) my am I not helping with cooking. I didn't thought of it that much, until I heard these beautiful words:

"What!? She doesn't know how to cook!? What would she do aur SHE is married!?"

It triggered ms more than expected because:

1. I AM 13.

2. I HAD TOLD EVERYONE I KNOW A MILLION TIMES THAT I DON'T WANT ANYONE TALKING ABOUT MY MARRIAGE UNTIL/UNLESS I APPROVE.

3. SHE LOOKED AT ME AS IF I WAS CRAZY WHEN I TOLD HER THAT I WAS THE TOPPER OF MY CLASS AND WON A PRIZE IN DEBATE, POETRY AND DANCING AND ASKED ME, "WHY ARE YOU STUDYING? YOU SHOULD BE IN THE KITCHEN!" AND DIDN'T BELIEVE WHEN I SHOWED HER MY MEDALS(SHE THOUGHT IT WAS OF MY BROTHER'S.)

Fortunately, my mum doesn't want want to be connected to those women either and said that I can break the connection when I become an adult.

Had a cop pull me over while I was driving my car down the freeway. Cop walks round to the passenger side and asked my bf if my driving was ok?

"The owner of the business wants to hire only women for this position because they're more accountable, hard-working, and have less ego about things."
For me, those are all fine qualities, but I don't get why only one sex has them, according to this guy.

One kid didn't let me sit on a swing next to him because I was a girl. I played on it anyway! He just got all huffy and left.

im female and in grade 2 the class was playing soccer and well my team won and some of my firends were telling me i was the reason out team won it was a joke and a guy from the other team said yea right she's just a dumb girl she cant play sports like me ( he was the goalie of the other team ) final score 2 -10

During my OR rotation in nursing school, one of the OR (female) nurses said, "Men can have difficulty with a nursing career. They often find it hard to support a family." It was sexist about a "man in a woman's career", and man as the sole wage-earner for the family.
I replied, "Well, I may eventually go into administration, teaching, or research [approving nods], or I might find myself a nice doctor and marry HER."
Even under her mask, I could see her jaw drop.

One of the places I applied to work a long time ago searched for a barista (the place was looking for one). I came in with my CV, handed it to one of the employees and I could hear the employee in the back giving my CV to his boss, and the boss going like "Make sure she's pretty." I'm convinced jobs such as these shouldn't have anything to do with your looks but oh well.

Was raised by a feminist hippie Mom who taught me that there was no such thing as a woman's job in the house and vice versa. My wife and I bicker lovingly abt those annoying chores. It's more sarcastic but when she tells me it's my job to bring in the money then I fire back with well she better go into the kitchen and make me dinner.

I have never understood why certain jobs or chores are assigned to us by our genders. My wife works a job that pays low but it tens times harder than mine. I have no problem doing those chores that I know she hates.

Kindergarten teacher would always let the girls get their outerwear first at the end of the day, and then let them go home while we had to wait. One day, despite being so young, my friend and I decided to get our coats with the girls in protest of the unfairness. The teacher went mad, and from that day onward would only address me as 'Michelle', and my friend as 'Lucy'. When my wife wanted to name our daughter 'Michelle', I said no way.

My ex-girlfriend wouldn't mow the lawn or take out the trash saying that was "man's work" so I had to do it when it needed to be done.

Was asked if my pussy was slanted like my eyes.