Hey Pandas, What's The Most Horrifying Thing Someone Confessed To You, Drunk Or Sober?

Not actually too bad. Theres probably been worse things I just cant think of, but my Unlce Mark said that he was fine with the Rattlesnake roundup (a festival in texas in which people round up rattlesnakes and torture them to death) Because rattlesnakes dont go to heaven and something about it being up to us to keep them in check (nature had been doing that since the dawn of life itself). He had never actually done this, because he doesn't live in texas and probably still wouldnt be interested, but, it was still pretty bad. I also had a friend confess to killing a ring neck snake when he was young, although he regretted it deeply so I dont think that was too bad

I sat on a couch with a friend watching YouTube on a couch at his apartment. We had been friends your years and I knew he had mental health issues but they never bothered me and I still don't think people should be defined by them. Stone cold sober he all the sudden got really close to me and began to cry. I asked what was up and he said "I want to f**k you but I don't want to ruin our friendship. I know you're in a relationship and wouldn't want to so I'm trying to convince myself not to rape you. "

I cannot even begin to describe the amount of discomfort I had in that moment. I decided to just try to talk him through the options and be like 'do the right thing' meanwhile very much aware that it's like a 50/50 toss up in his head still and he has me pretty much pinned. He ended up not, and apologised over and over. I left and ran like absolute hell to my car and despite it all, after some time, we actually somehow stayed friends (honestly probably only because i took psychology on uni and I had seen many signs that his meds needed to be recalibrated before that point). He never did anything close to that ever again and while I'll never be completely at ease around him after that I know that he knows while he's forgiven it isn't forgotten. He always stays at least 4ft away from me when we're alone so he never makes me feel uncomfortable again.

Sober. A co-worker confessed to me, without actually confessing to me that he went to strip clubs during lunch. He came by my cube to talk to me just after he returned from lunch. He had glitter smeared up the side of his face. He was seriously talking to me about a work issue.....with glitter plastered up the side of his cheek.

I said, "Dude, you just cant come to talk about a real problem with glitter up the side of your face."
A pregnant moment of silence, then *shocked, surprised*, he said, "OMG I found a bunch of glitter in one of my desk drawers."
Me: "Yeah, ok. No problem. Just maybe make sure to wash it off. Orrrrrrr.....don't get the stripper with glitter while you're at lunch. "

This all happened on Friday...

There's This girl in my class called K (obviously not real name) and she's the our years brat. Everyone I MEAN Everyone hates her. She's been like this since we were 8ish. This year I decided to put her in her place.

Her and freinds were messing around on this bench...she got pushed off..then jumps back on and starts playing again. Then 10mins later she's SCREAMING her head off at her freinds (freinds don't like her) about how she asked them to stop and they kept 'hurting' her. I overheard this and began to laugh.
K: oh U THINKS THIS IS FUNNY?!?!
Me: K, it's actually HILARIOUS
K: looks pissed off

Later on her 'freind' *ACIDENTLY* (spelling soz) scratches her (hardly) and she bursts into tears. As if the world ended. Goes and puts a wet paper towel on it (coz they fix everything lol) and shows everyone her battle scars (lol) . As we go inside she ransaxks her bag and pulls out A BANDAGE (BANDAID 🇺🇸) and puts her arm in a SLING, for a scratch. When me and her were alone we had this exchange:
K: Oh (my name) look at my horrible scratch, I think I'll need to go to HOSPITAL! (Her face 😥😭)
Me: K your being really pathetic.
K: WELL IT ACTCHULLY HURTS!!! 😭😭
Me (snapping): WELL YOU KNOW WHAT HURTS?!? (Tells her WVERYTHING that hurts when I was in hospital w cancer) THAT HURTS!
I stomped away then.
She then (during PE) was YELLING at a girl who WAS AUTISTIC (her autism dosn5 like noise)
I stormed over to her and snapped:
Stop YELLING!!!
She then burst into tears. BUT this week she's been SUPER NICE (weird) but Idc tbh. Then my freinds told me something HORRIBLE. After I told her she was pathetic. She went up to my bestie (??? Why???) And said I was using my cancer to be rude to everyone. WTH?!? I haven't argued w anyone but her lol.

TDLR:
A bratty girl who I tried to put in her place said I was using my cancer as an excuse to be mean.

Girlfriend had an affair with my Dad. :/

In eighth grade a girlfriend confided in me that her widowed father sexually abused her. I was too young and unfamiliar with how to deal with such things. She made me promise to never tell anyone. This is the first I’ve mentioned it in 60 years.

my dad yelled at me for not being able to fully take care of myself, im failing my 3 younger sisters i should be cooking dinner by now i always expect everything to be handed to me.
I am almost 13 years old, I take care of 3 younger sisters and my older brother with autism, I have an ed, and i dont ask for anything. guess im "mature for my age" yknow.

This happened years ago, when I was maybe 20-something (I’m now 35), but; I once stayed at my sister’s place & sat up late with my sister’s partner, after they’d been drinking. I wasn’t drinking, but I’m a night-owl, so I was okay sitting up & chatting with my BIL, whilst my sister had already gone to bed. Well, he’d had quite a lot to drink & then out of the blue, he pointed at a mounted samurai sword (like the one from the “Kill Bill” movies) & he said “See that samurai sword right there? I’d just love an excuse to use it one day.” Honest to god, it immediately chilled my blood. But, as I always try to think rationally, I decided it was just stupid drunk talk & hastily changed the subject. My BIL hasn’t brought it up since & he still has the samurai sword. Although he still drinks a lot, he’s not abusive or violent in any way & he’s a great dad to my little niece & older niece/nephew, regardless of his drinking habit. So, I have to conclude that it was just the booze talking. NGL, it did unnerve me at the time, though… 😨

My ex confessed to me that he ended up killing a thug back when he was a teen and in a gang. From what he told me it was self defense and the gun was held in the thugs hand the whole time. My ex bent his hand back towards the thug just as he pulled the trigger, making the thug shoot himself.

Sounds far-fetched but my ex really does have quick reflexes. He was never charged with anything. Apparently no one else knew, not even his parents nor his best friend. Not sure why he told me and I'm not sure how much truth is his in story. He could've also just been trying to come across more badass than he necessarily needed to.

my friend who was a Latino woman told me that she was a Trump supporter.

my male co-worker told me multiple times that his favorite scene in QT's Once Upon a Time in Hollywood is where a female assailant is being torched with a flamethrower by Leonard Decaprio's character. he gets really excited every time he mentions it.

Had an old friend tell me that her older brother and his best friend molested her when she was about 3 or 4. Her mother knew about it. Punished her but not her brother.

Not horrifying but here it is. A former friend and his friend bought two NFL game tickets. Discovered they were for wheelchair use only. ( one support person and the person in a wheelchair ) Tried to return the tickets and was not allowed a refund.

They decided to borrow a wheelchair and attend the game anyway. Personally I decided to back away from the friendship.

I was making conversation with a much older man on the bus, it started when the bus had slammed its breaks to avoid hitting something that was in the road. He casually mentioned he had just gotten out of prison a few days earlier and some dumbo next to us asked what he was in for. "Murder." Everyone that heard him ended up scooting away and leaving a 10 foot radius around him and I. Put me in an awkward situation. I was 19. I just kinda kept talking, ignoring the fact that I was talking to a recently released murderer.

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