Hey Pandas, What's A Single Sentence That Hurt You The Most? (Closed)

I have such a problem with trans people.

my cousin said this

"You're overreacting" someone close said this to me when I was at my all time low. I will never see them the same, and now I try not to show to much emotion around them.
Another person close to me once said "Depression is not an excuse to be lazy" this stung for a long time. I also don't see them the same. I just hide my emotions now. I only show them to myself behind closed doors...

Many people I have dated or hung out with have been very into me, that is until I mention my mental health condition. Not even joking a guy I was seeing was saying how much he wanted to be with me and how he was excited to see where things go. The second I mentioned my mental health he said "I feel like you're just going to screw my life up and that's your thing to deal with, not mine" and be blocked me. Don't penalize people for their mental health especially when you had no issue with their behaviour before.

I used to dance around all the time as a child. When I was around 8-9, I dreamily told my mom I wanted to be a ballerina. She quickly said “You are too big boned to be a ballerina”. I never dance anymore.

It was probably when my parents have said that they disown me. I wasn't disowned, but it still hurt me.

"Hey, M______, you're hideous."

"You have the personality only a mother could love."

Someone said it after some petty debate about a |personal| topic.

I hate you. I proceeded to call the person a b*tch and she cried

"If you're so depressed all the time, why don't you just kill yourself?" I was a teenager trying to figure things out, and this comment sent me into weeks of emotional spiraling.

You are AroAce? Doesn't that mean that you can't be my friend? You don't love people and my friends need to care about me.
I still care about people. I just don't want a relationship with them. :(

I choose my girlfriend and her kids over you. -my father to me

If you were a mother you would understand.
Said to me while still in hospital following surgery for an eptopic pregnancy

Numerous comments about my weight from family to complete strangers alike. The most recent one was a few weeks ago. I was having a nice lunch with my mom and aunt. Out of the blue, my aunt said that I shouldn't wear skinny jeans because I'm bigger. Well, that nice lunch quickly went south. The most memorable comment from a stranger was when an old lady told me I have a pretty face but I'm too fat. Thanks, lady!

Since when have you ever been non-binary?
From my sister, she was 7 and homophobic af. I never thought she would be the one to break me.
Now they use she/they pronouns.

When the doctor at the fertility clinic said to me and my ex-husband “the biggest shame is that if you were both with different partners you’d both be parents”

“If you’re so unhappy then just kill yourself. It would solve everyone’s problems anyway.”
This is definitely not something you should be telling people. This was in 6th grade. I’m now in highschool and still think of this as a reasonable way to go about things.

“I personally don’t consider depression as an excuse to not do your assignments.” -One of my friends, who also has depression. That really stung

"Im lesbien now" and im breacking up with you 😢 i have 5+ ex gfs :,)

My mom said something really hurtful. She said I can't use my ADHD as a crutch. I wasn't using it as a crutch. I'm struggling to focus!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She hurt me really bad with those words.

I'm not mad at you, I'm just disappointed in you.

Every time my Mom said this to me, my heart would break.