Hey Pandas, What Would You Say Is A Good Trait You Have?

I always try to put others' needs above mine which tends to be problematic sometimes but the joy i get seeing their happy faces is moree than enough :)

It may seem like a small thing, but I think I'm very good at being impartial when making decisions. I'm good at not letting my personal opinions influence me and I can stay level-headed and logical when making judgements in one favor or another. I can be unbiased and unprejudicial even if it affects me personally.

I grew up in a house of people who were the exact opposite in very severe ways, and it made me someone who doesn't ever want to be that. So I can step outside of my own personal beliefs and look at the facts and not respond emotionally to things.

Because of that, I'm also able to change my mind or admit I may be wrong if shown facts refuting my opinions and not take it as some kind of personal attack.

I am a weirdly incredible empath. You tryna say you’re fine and have a normal fine face but you’re actually rotting inside? I’ll know it, and I’ll talk you through it. Point being, just looking at someone and I will know exactly what emotion they feel.

Speaking of analyzing people, I SERIOUSLY can analyze people. I can tell if someone is tryna be nice or if they’re being nice to make me put my guard down and stab me in the back. For example at the start of 8th grade 4 girls brought me into their friend group. However ever since day 1 I knew there was something just OFF about them. Day 2 they start asking me who I ship them with and vice versa. By day 3 I dumped their butts! A little while later one of the girls had been dumped by the remaining 3 and told me how they made fun of me behind my back and secretly hated me. Didn’t shook me though. I subconsciously overanalyzed them and could tell they were the girls who did that.

And yes I am friends with that one girl who got dumped by the other 3, because she didn’t and she also got uncomfortable with stuff they did!

I'm extremely giving. Had people live with us, fed many teens whose parents were working, willing to help as much as I can. Great listener. Sometimes people just need to talk. I'm able to imagine myself in someone's place, so I'm always trying to help.

I like to say that I’m a very logical and critical thinker. My first thought is always “is it effective?” I like to try and understand both sides of the argument or a decision and then make a choice. I find it very helpful when having to mediate between people.

Honesty, tempered with wisdom and gentleness.

I'm honestly good to vent to, I'm apparently good at giving advice and just listening to peoples problems. I'm also reasonably good at getting to trust me after just meeting (over text because I meet a lot of people in group chats with my friends) I've had a person start talking to me about some problems after a day or two ans I'm absolutely honoured that I'm trusted enough with everything I'm told about

- I treat servers and retail workers really good. I've been there and know how shitty the job and the pay is.
- Always ask someone how they are genuinely not because its the routine thing to do.

I can read and match someone's mood/emotions within a minute

My eyes,there blue on one and green on the other it also starts light on the out side and darker closer to the pupil