Hey Pandas, What Would You Say Is A Good Trait You Have?

Writing. My dad says I write better than most of his students.

I would say compassion and empathy. You are able to see things from someone else’s perspectives and they both can go along way.

I don't get stressed, embarrassed or nervous. EVER.

You need a distraction? Social gathering need a pick-up? You got a question you're to shy to ask yourself? Need to do something that might make you look silly and want someone else to look more stupid? Just give me a call.

I am exceedingly....quiet.

That may not seem like a good trait, but allow me to explain. I hear everything before people realize I am there and can plan accordingly. Someone mumbles about the trash can being full? Poof, the trash is gone before they know it. Something else needs done at work but everyone else is busy? Done.
Of course...there's always the problems too. If you're cheating on your partner? Better hope I'm not around. They deserve to know and I'll be the "little birdie" that tells them your dirty little secret. It's a good trait for me, and it can be a benefit to others. Just don't be a d**k.

I’m an extreme empath (I will literally feel guilty af for a few hours after flushing a bug down the toilet, etc) and I’m very generous

I think I'm really nice and SUPER loyal. If you mess with friends or partner you are SO dead. I may only be 4'8 but I will Spider-Man your a$$ into the ground 🙃

I am civic-minded and encouraging of others.

I'm honest. Not in a brutal way, but I do not lie (except for occasional white lies, honestly!) I grew up with a pathological liar, and my goal has always been to be the opposite of him.

I am a supreme optimist.
If there is a silver lining, I will find it.
If there isn't one, I will make one.

I'm incredibly skilled at holding my tongue and looking past my issues when needed. It doesn't matter how mad I am at a friend, I can put off b*tching at them until after I've helped them with whatever it is they've come to me for. No matter how much I dislike someone, I can hold a respectful conversation for as long as needed for them to leave again. If I know for a fact someone is going to do something stupid, and I've told them time and time again, I don't ever say "I told you so" after the fact. I just help them fix it. And if I'm working with an absolutely horrible, rude, obnoxious, and downright cruel customer? I keep a smile on my face and a calm friendly tone while dealing with them.
Right up until their gone and then I'm raging like a psychopath the moment I'm able to.
What part of "we didn't get any on the truck" do you just not understand? What do you expect me to do about that? Huh? You want me to go drive down to the god d*mned distribution center personally and tell them one single person wants thier product so I need them to get on that right now please!? Go shop on Amazon if you need it that bad and leave me and my poor cashiers alone!
Like I said. I can look past them when NEEDED lol

People have told me that I motivate them to be their best every day.

I can calm down anxious people/animals whilst freaking out myself.

It can be a good and bad thing but I'm pretty good at self analyzing. I'm also empathic and very good at reading other people. Perhaps even better than myself but what I mean is that I constantly try to think how I can be better how I can make a situation different. I try to think of other people's point of views and why they may be acting the way they're acting. And for some reason I can usually give people great advice.

standing up for literally everyone (except myself)

I have to say that I find this type of question very awkward. I do not, as a rule, go around talking about myself and this has pushed me out of my comfort zone. Because of that, I have decided to push through and come up with an answer, so here goes....

As a four-year-old at Playschool, one of the 'teachers' said that I was 'a very good sharer' and that has stayed with me for some forty-odd years. It applies to anything really. If I have something and you don't, then I will either offer to share or offer it all to you. No strings attached. I will never forget how hard it is when you don't have enough to get by on. I think this applies to most people who have experienced tough times. They are usually the first to offer help because they know how it feels to go without. So yeah, I'm a good sharer!

I have a natural hand in training dogs :). I have trained all three of our dogs. (even the/my puppy) Our oldest dog, Osa, is so smart she knows a handful of tricks without the hand signing. 🙂 And the puppy knows all the basics+ roll over! The middle dog is just stubborn, but he knows all of the tricks... and more.

I try to see people for what they want me to see about them, and take that into consideration. Almost no one intentionally wakes up and says, I think I'll be an a*****e today for no reason.

Not very useful but i can tell when people are sucking in their stomach in photos.

I think my best trait is my singing voice. I get so many compliments from random kids parents lol.

I am an expert level 'finder'. I can find almost anything my household members can't. I just go to where I think it could be and there it is every time. Sometimes it takes a little longer but I pretty much always find whatever needs found. I once found a dropped pill on the ground outside after it was dropped in the grass. I was told a general area of where it fell, went out and stopped and looked down and it was right in front of my feet!