Hey Pandas, What/What Was Your First Kiss?

I was at a sleepover and me and my girlfriend made out for heaven knows how long, and her mom never did caught us weird creepy internet ppl

I was 13 and in 7th grade and going out with a boy who lived in my apartment complex. His mom was out one night and I went over there to take something to him (I don't remember what, I think it was some kind of homework or something like that). Anyway, he kissed me. It was rather aggressive, now that I am thinking back on it. He went full blown into make-out kissing, sticking his tongue down my throat. Not gentle or tender at all. And he kinda shoved me up against a table and we knocked a lamp over.
I haven't thought about this in years........

It was last year with a guy I thought I liked. I didn't want to but I did it anyway. He grabbed my a*s on the process like it was no big deal. Then he proceeded to tell me how much he would love to see me without clothes. We had been dating for a week.
So... Yeah not great 😒
Or maybe I'm over-reacting ?

Does my friend platonically kissing my cheek count? If not hasn't happened-