Hey Pandas, What Is The Worst Thing Your So-Called Best Friend Said To You? (Closed)

Their gender fluid but refuses to use my name and pronouns

My only friends are my stuffies :D and they don’t talk. To much 🙃

17 years my best friend. Her new boyfriend didn't like me. Always called her and demanded to come home for several reasons, when we were together. An she jumped immediately home to him. After a few months there were only short messages instead of calling or meeting. Last time I talked to her, she told me, her boyfriend thinks I would always try to manipulate her and I would be jealous of their perfect relationship. And SHE thinks, I would only be interested in myself, so in her opinion we have never been real friends. Thank God her boyfriend had openend her eyes... Didn't hear anything in the last 2 years and it still hurts.

This is less of what she said but more of what she and her friend did. So when I was in 2nd grade my "best friend" was teaching me how to do a handstand during recess. So I did a handstand and fell on my back (we were on soft grass so no injuries with that) So I thought my friend went to help me up, but instead she Stood on my stomach with one foot so her whole body weight was on me. My other friend with me didn't help me up but instead started laughing like it was the funniest thing alive.

“You know how it is! We all do it.”
No, we do NOT all cheat on our partners

One of my ancient chums ask this likewise ancient ole' ME for a sizable loan. Both over 80 year old, widowed, living on Social Security. There is absolutely no way either of us could repay a loan. She was very angry with me for deny her a loan. I lost 50 to 75% of my esteem for her.

I had one write me and tell me we "were never friends", or he may have said best friends repeating what I had written.

I had another who said (by her action technically) her relationship with my parents, which was a Christmas card exchange and nothing more, was more important than our 20 year friendship.

My mother, when I was 14 and told her I wanted to have a secondhand shop, said with disdain "you need to k.n.o.w somebody". Years later we bought a beautiful necklace at a secondhand shop run by a former classmate (I wonder who he knew). I never knew anyone I guess cause I never had a secondhand shop, but I have sold handcrafts at markets ...

she pranked my about my dogs tails bleeding badly(I would do anything for my dogs btw)

I want to be popular and you're not
thanks nancy

Your face...you always look like a bull.

I have none. I am really happy I have the best friend I do!

When I was 16 my father told me no one would love me if I was fat
This was after I put on a stone after struggling with and getting over an eating disorder.
I can still Remember it like it was yesterday

"what church do you go to?"
"Actually, I'm Atheist."
*Look of confusion*
"But you're going to hell...."

I've known her since we were about 6 years old, so over 30 years. After she had a child she sent me pictures of her son telling me that she loves to take funny and unflattering pictures. When I told her via Whatsapp the next day that my father also thought that one picture was funny she BLEW UP on me. Told me that she thought better of me than body-shaming a baby, and asked me if I ever looked into a mirror, and other things like that. I never commented on the looks of her baby, and quite frankly I didn't even care. I only said that that one funny picture she sent me after she told me she likes taking funny pictures, is actually funny.
I was always insecure about my looks, and having my best (or so I thought) friend telling me that I am ugly completely broke me. I stopped texting her, because I physically just couldn't, and for over a year she did not reach out to me either. She texted me during the first Corona lockdown, and now we are writing back and forth about unimportant stuff, but for me, the friendship/connection is just gone. Also, she never apologized.
I let some friends and even my therapist read that conversation, just to ask them if I said something wrong, but every single one of them said now, it was her who completely overreacted.

"You looked so much prettier when you were skinny."
I was recovering from anorexia

Sorry - not only something they said, but things they did all in one day

- We planned a day together only to find out she double-booked herself, so she chose the other person
….. it was my birthday

- Gave me a bday present she said she’d been looking forever for, it was a regift
….. that she showed me

- Woke up with hives on my bday, she said oh okay

When I was 9 years old I was best friends with this boy. We both were in aftercare at school, as our parents worked late and could only fetch us from school late in the afternoon. My friend had fallen and skinned both his knees days before and he had thick scabs. One afternoon when his mother came to pick him up, she saw he had been picking at the scabs. He told his mother that I had been the one picking his scabs and eating them! She screamed at me before leaving. The next day there was an enquiry at school because of what happened. Luckily no one believed my now ex-bestfriend. The whole incident was traumatic and I still think about it to this day.

It was my sister. My husband and I get back from the hospital after he has had a radical prostatectomy due to having cancer. She calls and wakes us both up at midnight to tell me that if he can never “do it” again, it’s OK to get a lover. He does not speak to her anymore ( it’s been 20 years).

Sometimes my best friend glares at me. She uses me because no one else in our friendship group is in our class. She only talks to me cause she knows no one else. I’m friends with other girls in our class but I talk to everyone. Sometimes she just replaces me with them and if we’re in a group task she just disagrees with everything I say even if she knows I’m right.