Hey Pandas, What Is The Worst Experience You’ve Had With A Sibling Or A Friend

In preschool, one of my best "friends" got angry at me for using the wooden building blocks (like, first of all, who trusts preschoolers with wooden blocks???) instead of giving them all to her, and bonked me on the head. Turns out it wasn't just a bonk. She almost gave me a concussion, and my head was bleeding. I was a preschooler. A. Preschooler.

Sibling's love is so precious! A broken jaw with multiples mandibular fractures, surgery, fixation wires for a month eating only liquid through a straw. Then when they removed the wires i screamed during half an hour because i got ehlers danlos syndrom and some anesthetics don't work on me. Siblings love!

my brother tried to commit suicide twice and i have had to go live in Utah for 3 months in a small studio apartment while he stayed at a mental facility, he still refuses to go to school, oh, he's also only 10

I have 3, 2 with my sibling, and one with a 'friend'. ~SIBLING~#1 she once smashed my face in a glass table and....yea...uh...I cut my eye open...#2sh once told me that everything was fine in her life until I can along, which was true....~'FRIEND'~ a 'friend' once tripped me in front of my 'crush' and I fell and he laughed at me O//O so...yea...

I had a friend who used to check my arms for cuts, which you might think is sweet but she was hella abusive when she found some. she once beat me with one of those chain necklaces, she punched me, and one time she dragged me over to some random person in the bathroom and exposed me. I had to sit with that kid every day because I was friends with his friends. Worst part? she was a cutter too and frequently relapsed herself. I was 14.

I secretly called child services on a friend for suspected munchausen by proxy on her 7 year old son. Many of us were suspecting it but I was the one who made the phone call. She lost custody of her son, got no prison time but instead court-ordered therapy. After she moved away, I heard she got married and had another kid. I know making that phone call was the right thing to do but I have horrible guilt about her son being placed in the system and bounced around in foster care.

i spent 30 WHOLE FRIKIN MINUTES Working no, perfecting my Christmas paper snowflake and my brother ripped it up i worked so hard i burst into tears kinda lame compared to the other ones but i still worked on it FOR 30 MINUTES

I had a friend at work who did the same job as me in another nearby office, and we got along famously. During the Great Recession, our company was combining offices and doing some brutal layoffs. Eventually the company went nasty and started trumping up performance issues and terminating employees for cause -- these were good employees who had been there for years without a single poor review. My friend and I were becoming redundant, so we knew that eventually one of us may very well get laid off, and she told me straight to my face that she hoped I was the one who took the fall. I told her that wasn't funny, because my husband had been laid off and we had a house and family to support on just my income. I dismissed it as an outburst because we were all under a lot of stress at the time. Eventually the company did fire me on the spot for an infraction that I didn't commit, without giving me a chance to defend myself or even ask why they were firing me. A month later I had a hearing with unemployment and the HR rep for the company stated that my friend (yes, they gave her name) had told them that I had committed this infraction to company policy. I hadn't done it. She had just thrown me (and my family) under the bus to save her job.

I was at lunch yesterday and I told her I was quite because of childhood trauma, and she said that her trauma was worst and just acted like my trauma didn't matter. I'm quite because I don't want to say something that makes my friends not like me anymore, I cling to my friends because I don't want to lose them. I spend every day wondering if my friends like me. So yeah that was not fun.

Won't talk about my childhood so we'll do friend.

As an adult I had 1 friend that was very abusive and I didn't realize how toxic that friendship was until I got out of it. I don't like hearing people say 'oh I'd never get into an abusive relationship, I wouldn't let my spouse or significant other hit me, etc.' y'all know what I'm talking about. I don't like that because anyone can be put into that position and not realize until it's to late.

I had a friend. We'll call her Lucy. Lucy and I didn't hang out a lot at first but we started becoming better friends so I came over more. She didn't drive, didn't work, stayed at home or went out with her family but that was it. Lucy had a boyfriend who I knew well too. Anyway Lucy's boyfriend got me an interview where he worked, I got the job but both he and Lucy told me they got me the job so now I had a regular schedule I needed to come by at least once a week.

I had 1 day every week I had to go spend over there, 3 days a week minimum I was supposed to 'pop in we barley see you', I was taking care of my Mom and if she needed me I basically got chewed out, cried on, told I wasn't being fair to her (Lucy), called a bad friend, etc. Please understand that most of this wasn't blatantly stated, that's just the gist of it. I was also exhausted from taking care of my mom full time, working a full time job, and meeting Lucy's demands.

I have a limit for how much I'll take from anyone even family. It's higher the longer I know you, especially if you're going through stuff which Lucy and her boyfriend were. She didn't work for a reason and then she had a baby which was..fun. When you reach that limit or surpass it though I'm done.

I reached my limit from her because she got furious with me for wanting to find out if I have the disease my mom had. Threw a fit because 'I don't understand why you need to know what difference does it make'. When I got the appointment for my results it was scheduled for the day after her birthday. I told her 3 months in advance that I wasn't going to make her birthday and Panda's that when she lost it and told me I wasn't a friend because I was chosing finding out if I was going to have a disease that would one day kill me over going to her birthday. Told me I needed to make the 'right decision' and that she wouldn't tell anyone else about this little talk.

I didn't make her birthday. I told her, repeatedly, I was going to make it, tried to find ways to make it up to her, and she told everyone I told her the day of her birthday party that I wasn't coming because I had a thing the next day. I found that out later though.

I get my results, which were positive, sent her a message like I did everyone else and her response was 'Oh, okay' nothing else. I had to process everything and kinda had a little melt down the first week. I had called into work and taken time off so I could wrap my head around it, and then I missed our 'Scheduled' day. She calls me up and proceeds to rip me a new one while telling me I'm being a terrible and selfish person who ruined her birthday. It wasn't her fault I did this to myself so why was I hurting her...it got bad. She smashed through the high bar of crap I was willing to take. Later that day I sent her a text, then blocked her on everything, blocked her family, blocked her boyfriend. One of our mutual friends called me up and we had a heart to heart, came over to comfort me. He really doesn't talk to Lucy anymore but he's one of the 4 people who told me the truth about what she was telling everyone.

There was a lot of stuff that happened that I'm not even covering here and it took me looking back on our friendship to realize how abusive and toxic it had been.

my friend dropped me on my back and i passed out for 13 hours

The first time I ever met my mother-in-law she said to me "You're not good enough to marry my son." It was all downhill after that.

When I was really little, my sister and I were fighting over who got to play on the Ds, and I twisted her arm a bit to get it back from her. She wasn't hurt bad, but I still feel awful about it

My little bro and I were doing homework. I was in second grade and he was in kindergarten. He was fooling around and annoying me. I told him to do his homework. He responded by stabbing me with a pencil. This was 10 years ago. I still have a scar.

My whole life, I have been bullied. You ask me about my childhood? "Bullies". There were 4 girls at my old elementary school, and they were soooo mean. They would tell lies about me, and tell other peers those lies, to make them hate me. They told my best friend that I had done something bad. The lie is so mean, I don't even want to share it. But, my best friend believed them. I lost her, and ended having no one to talk to. The teachers were my only choice. I was so depressed that my mom moved me to another school district. I'm very happy now, and have lots of friends who support me in everything I do.

When I was smaller, a friend blamed me for breaking a very expensive toy at her house. I did not. I learned from her brother that she actually broke it herself but forced my family to pay for it.

both my gramma and my mom call me Stephanie, my name is not Stephanie, or suzi, or shelia. It's serena. like serena Williams

my bro hits me beats me up emoslale always says when your mean when something doesnt go his way it just makes me depresed if you can please help thro comments

My friend blew up my minecraft house!!! :(

In the third grade, I had a 'best friend'- let's call her Lydia. Anyway, we were going on a class trip, and me and her were goofing off, and her mom was there. Apparently, her mom thought I was being a "bad influence", even though we were just laughing and telling dad jokes. She pulled Lydia aside, told her that she could either stay friends with me, or leave me and stay in her 2-WEEK ONLY karate class. She never talked to me again.