Hey Pandas, What Is The Worst Betrayal You Have Ever Experienced? (Closed)

Oh, Stacey, you total a**hole. We were coworkers and friends, and would confide in each other. I thought the fact that she told me her secrets, which I told no one, meant mine were safe. Nope. F*ck you, Stacey.

I met some guy when I was a teenager. I had problems with my parents (who didn't care much about me after a childhood full of violence) at that time and guess, I just wanted someone to like me and accept me the way I am. That *** lied to me about his age (looked quite young and told me so) and made me run away one evening after a huge fight with my parents. Not only were my parents friggin mad (which led to more abusive control by my mother) but that *** took advantage of my emotional state and did ... things.

I guess I felt betrayed by that ***, my parents (even before) and myself, esp. myself. I didn't have anyone to talk to afterwards as everyone seemed to be disappointed and angry with me, except one teacher. I didn't tell her what exactly happened at that time, but still felt comforted and that at least one person was not mad at me. Some years later I found out she could tell what happened. Then she helped me to find the help I needed (I could not have done it underage without my parents knowing). It took a pretty long time and trauma therapy to understand the dynamics behind it and to not feel that guilty any more.

I guess the one thing that I really learned is, there a lot of *** out there, but also nice people who care. Sometimes they are not the closest or nearest or most obvious options, but they are there. This is one reason why I became a social worker.

My ex. I thought he was my best friend, the best guy ever. We dated for about a year. Then I found out he was cheating the whole time. Broke up with him, he kept trying to call me, talk to me. He's not bothering me now but it still hurts that the person I thought loved me, didn't. But it's fine now because I found someone who truly cares for me.

When my mom kept dating the guy who sexually abused me since i was eight

I'm female and I had a girlfriend ( just a friend) I loved her like a sister. A SISTER. I told her something that I had never told anyone else and yes it was a secret. It got back to me through a mutual male friend. I was crushed beyond repair. I only have male friends now. ( for years now )Women are the most vile, vindictive, backstabbing , vicious, despicable people on this planet. They make me ashamed to be one.

My own family forgot I came out, until the literal SECOND my homophobic af sister asked why I didn’t give her hand me down dresses.
“Oh she’s non-binary”
not only did you tell my homophobic sister I’m non-binary (which should have never happened) you misgendered me in the process. Betrayal tastes disgusting.

When my so called best friend helped my ex husband get me fired from my job because she wanted my job. I was devastated. I don’t hate her. I just choose to not have anything to do with people who make me feel bad.

This is a betrayal in the process. One of my best friends is kinda starting to become an a*****e someone told me she was trash talking me now.