Hey Pandas, What Is The Best Thing Of Being Single? (Closed)

having to worry about yourself and your work and the like, not having to worry about an so. sorry, this sounds weird i live with my family lmao

Going off grid completely.
Phone slips under the couch cushions for 5 days? No problem. If I could just drop my phone into the ocean I'd be so happy.

Being able to decorate my home the way I want, drive the kind of car I want. Not having to worry about what I am going to get yelled at for when I get home. Never being told I am too stupid to get things done the right way or on time. Now being woken up at night with a bucket of water because I refuse to argue. Not having to fix the door jams / cabinet doors / front gate / bathroom mirror etc… because she would slam all the doors when she was mad at anything. Not being told you are useless and can’t do anything right. Not being told I wish you would stop taking your meds so you would just die. Not being told you are a horrible parent and going to ruin your kids’ lives when you don’t agree with her. I would say I really just like the quiet, but the house gets too quiet when the kid are not there.

no pressure of having to be your best

I simply don't have the time to commit to a relationship. I'm glad that I'm not in one right now, because the lack of time I'd have for my romantic partner might hurt them, and I don't want to be the cause of someone's emotional pain.

Money.

Not having the anxiety of making sure your partner is happy and not having to worry about the possibility of hurting someone

A few things I find kind of nonsensical, although these would be impossible to be made illegal, since if there are human beings existing there will be jerks and criminals.

1. Sexism and just general nonsense. And plus, women want EQUAL treatment with men, not HIGHER treatment of men. So I disagree with feminists just as the same as thinking-women-are-inferior stupid men, even if I’m biologically female.
But it’s proving impossible since the working society, bluntly, dislikes women. People, it’s just a gender. If you treat a person by their gender and not as an unique human being, you are an a******e and you deserve to have a better education.

2. Racism. Why? Just why? As an Asian student I’ve been getting a lot of downright ridiculous stuff like delusional people saying I don’t get to exist and I should burn in hell. Tempting, but no thanks. I understand it’s YOUR country and stuff, but guess what I’m not doing anything wrong. I’m completely harmless. I’m just a freaking student who would always be the one being picked on.
And people who judge people by skin color, accents and cultural differences to themselves, you STILL deserve a better education.

3. Arrogance and general rudeness, inconsiderate speaking, tactless remarks and stuff. It’s just some stuff everyone dislikes. It’s impossible to ban but still. And also it’s so RUDE to say ‘I didn’t mean it, why are you so sensitive’ to friends/partner. If you’ve been tactless and said rude or hurtful things ONCE it’s okay, everyone makes mistakes. But THAT doesn’t mean a friends’ dignity is to be STOMPED on. I don’t know if I’m the only one who seems to be a toxic friend magnet, but if a loved one ( be it friends, BFFs or family )constantly belittles you, you need to be careful around them and don’t harm yourself further.

This is long. But there’s a freaking reason I nearly got depression.

Oh gosh so many things! Probably the best is I can have the thermostat set where I want it. I like it nice and cool . . . OK, cold-ish. I no longer have to compromise and be uncomfortably warm, or play thermostat wars.