Hey Pandas, What Is Some Advice For Getting My Crush To Like Me?

This is going to sound cliche because everyone always says it but best thing you can do is be yourself. Don’t pretend to like things you don’t just to fit in. Does he single you out to talk to you? Maybe you can suggest a casual meet up with some friends to get to know each other better? Best of luck to you :)

I’d say try to approach him as a platonic friend first. That way you can gauge his romantic feelings without directly putting yourself in the line of fire. You risk getting friendzoned though, so be smart and be mature enough to accept the outcome if it’s not in your favor

Wise Woman Wisdom here. The thing is you can’t make someone like you. Once you stop being who you are then what may have been the attraction is gone. Be prepared for them not be the catch you think they are. Watch his behavior with people they do and don’t know. What’s the vibe? Seriously, ignore the hormones and what vibe do you feel and do they match the behavior. Keep your thoughts to yourself, don’t share information prematurely. Observe if anyone else is interested in them and watch how they respond. ( be aware that if that is the case Do Not make that response yours). Filter the commentary as to what you should do and how you should do it, how do you feel? Most of all, my sense is that you are a young (15-20) range. Know that there will be rejection along the way and that’s okay, it’s part of life. How you respond to it is everything. Remember it may not be meant for you or it may not be the right time. There are so many variables that show up in life and you will Not see them coming. So have compassion for yourself, it’s okay to grieve what could’ve been but there is always NEXT! Don’t let the insecurities and doubts of youth dictate your emotional state. If you’re feeling some kind of way. Examine where you feel it in your body and tell it you understand and ask for it to assist you in feeling better. Then just sit with it. Then go do something to celebrate the release of that negativity! I hope you take from this wisdom what you need and if it resonates with you, allow your intuition to assist you in those moments you need it the most.