Hey Pandas, What Double Standard Bothers You The Most?

When parents ask for help it's your responsibility to help it if the goodness of your heart. When you ask for help (and it is legally their responsibility to help you), it is a favor and you are lucky they did.

When a woman becomes accidentally pregnant and seeks an abortion, society never blames the father, it's always the woman's fault. But birth control for women take a long time to be effective, when men can so easily get condoms from pretty much any store. If a woman decides to go on the pill, or use a contraceptive patch, or a shot, she must make the appointment with a gynecologist, which costs money and can be taboo, then it often takes more than 2 months for the method to be effective. And if it's an IUD, the wait is even longer, the procedure more painful and expensive, etc. Not to mention all the side effects. So if a woman wants to have sex, she has to plan it at least two months in advance to be sure there won't be a baby. The man just needs to stop by Walmart or the nearest grocery store and grab a box of condoms, which works immediately (though not 100%, of course): cheap, no invasive procedure or intimate questions from a doctor, easy, etc. So why do we blame women? Especially knowing that some men just refuse to wear a condom because it decreases their pleasure boohoo cry me a river! And that the sex that resulted in an embryo wasn't necessarily consensual!

People getting mad/annoyed at you for struggling mentally.

I have panic/anxiety attacks almost three times a week. I don’t SH anymore but have friends that are trying to come clean, I’ve made it clear that SH is triggering to me and will throw me into a spiral.
I used to have a friend who threw everything about me away, I’d have panic attacks they’d roll their eyes and ignore me. But when they did and I comforted and helped them I was a b**** somehow.

Now those people rub me wrong (and I think they should).

Fundamental problems with Christianity

1. An all-powerful, all-loving god should not demand to be worshiped.
2. The very concept of heaven and hell makes a mockery of the idea of free will.
3. The Old Testament God is the last thing to represent perfect love and justice.
4. There is a hierarchy in their institution for levels of belief, with those who are more advanced to be highly reguarded
5. God has failed to spread his word to everyone.
6. Jesus, a white boy from jerusalem, wants to save you from a god that will send you to hell if you don't accept him into your heart.
7. The Kangaroos swam across the Atlantic so they could avoid Noah's flood. But that's OK, 2 of them actually made it!
8. Humans, by default, are supposedly in bondage to sin from birth. They are powerless to do anything except sin.
9. Why should choosing against God result in eternal torture?
10. Why did God create Satan if He knew that Satan would be in opposition to all His ways?
11. Why pray at all? God already has a perfect plan, which he’s carrying out regardless of our input. Shouldn’t we just have faith?
12. Should a common person enter into the Ark of the Covenant, why will he be consumed?

The double standards surrounding teenagers. They get treated like children but are expected to act like adults all the time. They have to have their entire life planned out by junior year. And if they mess up it can't possibly be an accident.

If the government finds Oil, Gold or Diamonds on your land, but if they find drugs its yours.

Heres an example from school: Teachers can take/technically steal your phone and withhold it from you if they see you on it but of you saw a teacher on their phone and told them 'No, no, I'll just take this.' they'd get pissed off and give you an office referral.

Make chests are ok naked.
Female chests must be covered.

First of all I am a woman, but I see this at work one minute the women want to be treated just like everyone else. Then when the company has food all women go first just because they are women. I say first come first serve. Man or woman.

Pretty much everything what the media does. If anyone else would do what moder "journalists" do, theyd been recognised the self-absorbed a**holes as they are or would bevthrown to the jail but when the media does the same it's under the protection of freedom of press.

Ukraine -- Palestine (both are terrible things)
Black/brown/Asian/basically anyone non-white -- white
Hijab-wearing -- non hijab-wearing

The 'subconscious' double-standard. This is the one people will INSIST and double-down that they don't do despite having outright demonstrated it merely seconds previous. Example is when someone responds to the 'ugly girl's" question with aggression, lecturing and correction... but then the pretty girl waltzes into the room 5 minutes later, asks the same question and the response she gets are smiles, nods, agreement ... sometimes even a compliment for being so smart. Yet... when this is brought up.... amazingly... NO ONE in the room seems to have noticed the 'ugly girl' getting mistreated.

I'm going to get killed for this but the question was asked so I'm responding. I don't like double standards when women want all-women establishments and scream sexism when men want them too. A good example of this is that taverns were men-only, then the women protested and they are now both sexes. The whole atmosphere in these places changed completely. Gyms are another issue. Women want their own but men cannot have men-only gyms because it's sexism of them to want those. How is that fair? I'm a female.

When Women carry unborn children inside of them, it's wonderful, and they're congratulated. When men do it, they're facing life sentences.