Hey Pandas, What Do You Need Someone To Hear? (Closed)

Biological sex is not binary, so how can gender be binary? Pronouns are determined by language based on gender. Pronouns are a form of identity. My pronouns reflect my identity. Why should I deny the pronouns of others just because I think I know better about their sex and/or gender?

When a woman tells you she doesn't want to have kids please just go with it and say "okay"

No matter how hard you try, not everyone is going to like you. Some people just won't like because of them. They have a problem and want to take it out on you, or a friend.
I've learned this the hard way, and have gotten very hurt in the process. Just stick with the people and friends you know best. If someone is every a complete jerk to you, unprovoked, just know that it's isn't your fault. It's something with them and they need serious help.
If you think you're one of those "jerks", please get some help. Wether that be therapy or a better friend/ friend group.
Being a people pleaser is very stressful, I see it in my mother all the time.
Don't try to get them to like you, of they don't, just roll with it. Don't let them get to you.

It is okay to have and show emotions.

Parents, please take this to heart. If you raise your child in a strict environment and you're strict in general, you are going to do the exact opposite of what you want. They aren't going to be an angel child whatsoever. They are going to find every way to do what you don't want them to, and they are going to do it in the most unsafe way possible. So please, let your kid have at least a healthy amount of freedom so they don't end up in a bad situation.

People aren't thinking about you nearly as much as you think they are. They generally don't care about the little tiny day-to-day mistakes that you make, and they probably don't hate you for the stupid reasons that sometimes make you hate yourself.

Just because they have to take your order does not mean that customer service workers are there to be your emotional dumpsters! If you spend the whole day taking poop from your management, and you feel like c**p at the end of it, that is understandable. However, find another, healthier place and method for discharging all that negative vibe. Your local recreation center employee or McDonald's drive-through employee do not deserve your "righteous" wrath!

1.its better to adopt kids then make your own

2.when you don't want a pet anymore or cant take care of it. don't throw it on the streets, find them a new home

3.Anime sucks (im serous)
please feel free to leave hate comment my post. i love reading hate comments

Be kind to everyone. If someone is a jerk (acts like one) it often means they're scared. Sometimes of you, and sometimes because they think they'll lose something if you gain. Therefore if you are kind to everyone, you disarm them.

- Freedom of speech does not equal freedom of concequences.
- Your religion is like a part of the male anatomy. It's fine if you have one, but there is no need to shove it down peoples throats.
- Just because you don't like something, doesn't mean I should change it. Especially if it's something that really doesn't cause harm in any way

I'm proud of you. If you achieved all your goals, I'm proud of you. If you achieved some of your goals, I'm proud of you. If all you did was stay alive today, I'm proud of you. You did a great job today.

BECAUSE I AM AN ONLY CHILD DOES NOT MEAN I AM A SPOILED BRAT.

I am an only child and I never had another kid to play with, or have another kid to learn how to solve problems/conflicts correctly. THAT IS NOT OUR FAULT!!! Also, we get nice things, because our parents have less mouths too feed/clothe/etc. just me, my mom, and my dad. Do not automatically assume that only children are spoiled because we aren’t. We are so lonely that we don’t know what to do. We don’t have someone else to hold our hand through hard times. Please, don’t ever assume about only children.

It costs you nothing to be kind, but the rewards are endless.

Just because you can, doesn't mean you should.

Everyone has opinions, and sometimes those change within moments.

The only person's opinion that matters is the person staring back at you from the mirror.

If they will cheat with you, they will cheat on you.

Sometimes what you want is the worst thing that can ever happen to you. Don't obsess about a goal, just let life show you the way and you'll see it was worth it

It isn't fair to compare anyone with kids to someone without kids. You shouldn't ever, as an outsider looking in, assume that someone's life is easy or they don't have responsibility because they don't have children. You know nothing about someone else's life and what ia happening in it. It's true not everyone wants kids/can have kids but never make assumptions about someone's life. Some women don't have kids because rhey can't; some because they don't want them both of which are fine. But the moment you look at someone's performance in anything-- how often they take personal days, how much makeup they have on etc and say well "so-in-so has three kids and somehow they can manage" you are comparing two totally different people, with different lives, different skills, different situations on a very skewed, highly biased and antiquated metrics. Not all women can be divided into those with kids and those with no responsibilities-- you wouldn't do that with men, don't do that with women (especially when you are a woman yourself, shame on you.)

You will never feel free. You will always have some restraints.

It’s okay to not like something. You are allowed to not like something that your friends really like, and it doesn’t make you any different!

If the guy who got you pregnant is a lazy dead-beat and you think that having their baby will make them "snap out of it" and finally "step up"", then don't be surprised when you get shafted and end up raising little Junior all by yourself.

No one knows what they are doing. Most 'adults' are just as clueless and anxious as you feel most of the time...or is this just me? - I definitely don't know what I am doing but people still trust me to be in charge.