Honestly, if you want some hard truth, it's having to deal with the bigots.
It's honestly so shocking that in 2023, despite it being observed scientifically in other species, you still think that being gay is a human error. Or that you have the right to know what's between someone's legs. Or that the young trans girl who just wants to do her business in peace is actually a r*pist in disguise. (despite the fact that statistics show that trans/lgbtq+/etc people do in fact, suffer more sexual abuse) Get real, and get educated.
And don't get me started on the religious crazies, letting a book tell you what to believe is crazy. If I turned round and said elves and orcs are real because it said so in Lord Of The Rings you'd all call me crazy. Believe in a god all you want, that's your decision, but don't use it to justify your pointless hatred towards the LGBTQ+ community and force it down our throats.