Hey Pandas! What Are Some Of The Things We Shame People For That Are Totally Normal? (Closed)

Liking someone of the gender. I mean come on, love is love.

in school i get in trouble for yawning. what?

Messing up someones pronouns, people make mistakes especially if you knew them before they changed them

For just being yourself. I know too many people that are different when they are with certain people.

Shitting

Stimming. It's an entirely normal thing for neurodivergent people/beings to do, yet we are all judged for doing it, even by relatives/friends! 'QuIeT hAnDs' is stupid. Let us be us! We'll STIM if we want to!

Mental illness like panic disorder,generalized anxiety disorder, depression, and other issues that are totally common, but no one talks about and you feel alone when you have it. It needs to be talked about and normalized.

Being polite to avoid offending someone is seen as "being fake" and not telling it how it is.

pineapple on pizza

Chronic illnesses, specially the invisible ones. No, they are not lazy, they don’t need to exercise and goin to therapy “because it’s in their heads”. They are ill and in pain and deserve compassion.

Using neopronouns is something I've noticed more and more people getting angry about. A lot of the criticism even comes from the LGBTQ community and it breaks my heart, because is it really hurting you if someone uses them? It is not making fun of the community to use them (unlike some certain attack helicopter or "you date pans?" jokes many people deal with), and there is no expense to you to use them. I had a non-binary friend get annoyed with someone not wanting to use they/them for them (totally valid) and then go on a rant about how neopronouns are invalidating the 'actual' LGBTQ people. As long as it isn't something offensive, why shame people?

Aging

Not being like your parents/sisters/brothers/etc. I personally don't have any siblings, but I have friends who do, and they tell me that I am lucky that I am not compared to older brothers/sisters.

Music choices.
I enjoy an eclectic mix of music from classical, through Metallica and even Steps or Hollywood Undead. None of my selections affect you and yet you think I'm looking for a critique of my musical repertoire? I do not care that you like [insert latest hip band here]. Stop judging me for my music taste. I'm not in any of the bands or anything.

Not liking my toxic family members just because they are family. Like i really don't care if you are my blood, you're toxic and hurting me i will not allow that in my life. If you change let me know and we can reconnect but until then, nope.

Not being that tough or easily offended

for #32 I meant getting shamed for being easily offended

Breastfeeding in public. That's why women have breasts, people, to suckle their babies. It's natural. It's not obscene, it's not disgusting, it's not even a cause for embarrassment, yet there are people who make out the mother is some kind of low-life exhibitionist for feeding her baby what it needs even when she is being discreet.
Is it because men are too easily distracted by the thought of a woman's breasts? Maybe they think breasts are only for them to leer at? That is their problem! Grow up!
O often wonder if it was started by baby formula makers who want to sell their product.

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