I had been married 8 years, we have a 3-year-old. Because I was too unpleasant (due to the grief of my dad dying), my husband abandoned us for alcohol and online porn. I was to believe we were in a Christian/ devoted marriage. He gave up on me, started doing these things, deceiving me, until I had to borrow his $1000 phone.
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Time and counseling. As cliché as that sounds time really does make a difference. Counseling will help you as well, it gives you a un-involved 3rd party who can assess the situation from their point of view and help you on the road to healing. I'm Christian and yes through Sky Daddy all things are possible, but he also put people here to help.
I will state its okay to be angry and feel rage. A lot of Christians tend to bottle that crap up like we're not human. Don't forgive until you're ready for it, you're allowed to feel betrayed, you're even allowed to hate him. Just don't build a house and stay there. You need to process all that anger and when you're ready get up, dust that off yourself, and start heading down your new path.
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