Hey Pandas, Vent Here If You Need To

See, I have a crush on my friends old crush, so I asked him out yesterday (he said yes), but today I was told that my friend has a crush on him again. I told her I liked him and she said it was okay because she had kinda dropped the crush, but I guess she picked it up again. I feel so freaking bad, and I don’t know what to do.

I might be grey-aro because I get crushes, but they're very mild. a bit of help please?

Well, my ex reached out to me a day ago after nearly 3 months without talking and asked if she could talk to my current girlfriend. And stupid me said yes and asked my girlfriend if she wanted to talk to her, she just said 'Sure, I'll do it'. I'm really scared she might be trying to ruin our relationship because we had a couple falling outs before we broke up. I think she's trying to get revenge on me for breaking up with her.