Hey Pandas, Talk To Me About Your Latest Issues Or Struggles. I'm Here To Listen (Closed)

I think my biggest struggle is quite common so I don't like to make it seem like a problem.

I'm 33 so I'm peak millennial. Lol. Everything just seems to be going so wrong and we have no control over it. The environment is being destroyed and exploited. Our resources are dwindling but our population keeps growing. All levels of government is corrupt with bribes and old people that think they know best. On top of that, the economy is getting worse. I can't afford basic comforts even though I work 8-5 everyday. I can't afford real estate or anything of the sort. There is nothing to enjoy unless you've benefited from wealthy parents or got a lucky break in life. It's just all gone to sh*t (pardon my language).

The icing on the cake you ask? I've always been an anxious overthinker which has really put a dent in my social and relationship life. It's practically non-existent. I'm now barreling down a road towards 34 years old, with things getting worse by the second and having missed on any sort of real connection with someone, so I feel like I've missed the boat and there is a hole in the lifeboat (I kind of switched metaphors there but you get the point lol).

Thank you for listening. It is much appreciated and felt good to type. :)

My Father Died in May 2019 after a long battle with Alzheimer's. My brother died on New Years Eve 2020 from kidney failure after a life long battle with alcoholism. My Mother died in June 2021. She died next to her bed, no one had heard from her in 4 days and the fire department had to break down her apartment door to get to her. My sister has had to arrange every funeral and settle all of their affairs because I'm 3000 miles away. I so wish I could give her a hug and take away the depression and pain she must be dealing with everyday.

Screwed up Meds
Narcissist Family Member
Home projects with no help
Changing jobs

I struggle with depression and anxiety
I have a severely autistic 9 yr old who is often violent towards me ( biting kicking punching throwing things) I also have 2 other daughters 12 & 14 the eldest is struggling with mental health and identity issues ( sexuality gender ect)
While my middle child is the proverbial girl with the curl either being angelic or being really hard work not listening at all and lying when she doesn’t get her own way on top of this I’ve got a bad back so everyday us spent in pain . I try my best but sometimes it’s all too much and I get overwhelmed but I g if ave to keep going everyday cause there’s no. choice

Can I add ?

My Parents are raci3t and Sexist and homophobic.

Hi! i'm just another person struggling with their gender... I think i might be genderfluid but then when i think i'm my assigned sex i start going back on it all, thinking i'm just a cis who wants attention or to "fit in" and that it changes way to quickly to be valid... i'm just really unsure. i think i might ask a friend of mine to try gender neutral pronouns for me soon, but i'm really scared - its not like they wouldn't support me, but still...
anyway, sorry for this word explosion.

Well everyone around me thinks I’m a psychopath and they want to send me to a mental hospital because I tried killing my self(wich I’ve tried multiple times).
I recently find out that my ex was just with me so she could feel better about herself and didn’t really care about me. 100% I’m done dating because these happens every time
I’m super tired and drained from work and then my case work( I have to deal with him because of probation) wants me to do a bunch of activities after words wich I don’t wanna I’m to busy and tired for that but I have to
I’m just done with life. Literally losing it

I just want a hug ;—;

This is probably going to be pretty long, sorry.

So first of all, I was just being misgendered a lot this week which made me kinda sad. I just came out like a month ago and I know there’s an adjusting time, but it still made me sad.
Also I want a binder, I just don’t know how to ask my mom because it’s kind of an awkward question to me. I really hate my chest it just gets in the way and makes me self-conscious.
I also want to get a YouTube/twitch channel but my parents at moms house (I have divorced parents) really don’t want me to have one. I kind of get why, but like I won’t show anyone my face or tell anyone my real name or where I live etc. I’d make one at dads house and just not tell mom, but I don’t have a good computer at dads house and I don’t have enough allowance to get one.
Also I have a problem with my schools. For 3rd-5th grade I went to this really awesome public school, and it was fun. Then once Covid started I went back to homeschooling. I went to this real amazing homeschool co-op, and I met pretty much my core seven friends right now (I actually get to play DND with them tonight so I’m super excited about that :D)The things is, my public school promised to save my spot for 7th (if you left you can’t come back but they said I could). I don’t know if that would extend to eight or not, but I promised co-op I would stay with them for 7th. I would like to go back to my public school for eighth, to see my friends, and because my oldest friend said that’s it’s actually really LGBTQ friendly, and there’s another enby person. There are enby people at my co op but they’re high school so I don’t really see them. One of the reasons mom doesn’t really want me to go back to my public school is because she thinks that they wouldn’t except me. To be honest if they don’t except me I don’t really care, screw them they’re losing out on the wonder that is me. I don’t really have a reason that I want to go back except I want to see my friends again. Mom offered to try and find their emails by taking to their parents but that would be weird considering I haven’t seen most of them in over a year.
Also (final thing I promise) I’ve just been kind of sad lately, and I have a huge thing of writers block. I have a story about the apocalypse that I’m working on, and I really like it, but writers block is just kicking my butt right now. So yeah. Any advice for anything is welcome.
Thank you for reading. I just needed to rant :)

My current job is killing me. I found a new job but I’m losing half my pay, but I took it because I can’t stay at my current one. They expect 50+ hours weekly and I’ve done that for nearly two years and it will kill me if I stay much longer.

I’m worried with the new job I won’t be able to adequately support me and my son. I’m a single mother with no other support and while I’ve made a budget he has autism and the medical bills will be killer.

What if I fail. What if I’m making the wrong choice. Why can’t I be better.

I don't like how I look and especially in a bathing suit. My family goes to a pool club and they like to go there a lot in the summer. I have major social anxiety and hate to be around that many people, especially in a bathing suit. I never want to go or swim and my family is getting really nosy and rude about my not wanting to go.

Asshole neighbour stalking me, monitoring my movements and badmouthing me to other residents

Coming out to my mom, and not to my dad. (I’m bi) I came out to my mom, b/c I knew she would take it better. She told me not to come out to my dad and.. it’s a mess.

mines kinda dum, im on the edge of giving in to all of it. sex, smoking, cutting class, classic teenager stuff. but I am barely avoiding it. i dropped all of my old friends in the middle of covid just after my thirteenth birthday party, so I made new "more popular" friends I guess you could say, I now have my first boyfriend who I've always simped over but my friends kept me away from all that, because to them i was an option to hang out with when it was convenient. so me and (lets call him jake) jake started hanging out, we both really like marvel, but not in a nerd way, and so i started hanging out with one of his friends, and now i guess you could say I'm popular. but the worst parts to all of my drama is that the "it girl" at our school (lets call her cara) is also close ex and is SUUUUPPPPEEEERRR jealous, of me and jake because he is actually really happy with me and he wasn't with her. a couple of things you should know about cara is:
she vapes, smokes weed, pretty much all of the stuff she can get her hands on at this point, tbh i wouldn't be surprised if she did coke.

she has hooked up twice (that i know of) at the age of fourteen,

she is genreally just a bitch

but jake and her are still really good friends soooo idk what to do

i do have friends other than her and jake, but i kinda have to be friends with her, its complicated.

also, my mom literally stalks my phone, she has an app where she can see everything on my phone, soo ya shes crazy, and i cant have tiktok or snap, or insta, sooo ya. but i love her because shes my mom and she has "good intentions"

and i have to deal with all of that while struggling with anxiety . . .

Struggling with anxiety and depression. Always scared of something or feeling like I’m on the verge of panicking, plus feelings of uselessness. I’ve been hesitant to say my age on here but since you don’t know any other personal info about me, it should be fine. I’m 15 and feeling like there’s nothing I can do to help anyone else, and just watching as the world kinda goes to sh*t. Plus I can’t really do anything for myself. I’ve attempted to talk to my parents about the anxiety/depression but they just dismiss it and im not really old enough to do anything without their consent. So I kinda just want to give up on everything. It’s hard to enjoy things when there’s always a constant feeling of guilt/fear/just a lack of energy or motivation. I just want to go to sleep and give up honestly ¯_(ツ)_/¯. Also remember to drink water guys and take your meds if you have them

my 13-year-old brother is really sick with some unknown sickness. he goes to the doctor a lot and they said he only has about a year or less to live. my older brother died almost 2 years ago and i don't wanna lose another sibling.

I’m 67 my Mother is 88. Yep it’s a HUGE problem. The only thing it has taught me is that I will NEVER burden my children’s lives by insisting I have to stay in my home. If independence is only achieved by your family helping you it’s called being completely selfish.

I'm struggling to stay motivated enough to do chores and stuff after job. I want to lay down and sleep for 15 hours. I don't really want to do anything except watch some dumb videos, I don't even enjoy playing video games. But it'll pass.

I just recently feel like I'm falling apart and can't hold it together anymore. I'm also starting high school and I'm so worried about it because I'm worried about being able the keep up with work and friendships and relationships and so much more. I'm just always anxious now.

My current job is killing me. I found a new job but I’m losing half my pay, but I took it because I can’t stay at my current one. They expect 50+ hours weekly and I’ve done that for nearly two years and it will kill me if I stay much longer.

I’m worried with the new job I won’t be able to adequately support me and my son. I’m a single mother with no other support and while I’ve made a budget he has autism and the medical bills will be killer.

What if I fail. What if I’m making the wrong choice. Why can’t I be better.

my life is confusing
i don’t know how else to put it. i’m starting the 8 th grade in a month, and i’m just so scared. this year school is until 4, with a 5 min break between periods. next year… i might have 9 periods or even 10, meaning school is till 5, and homework on every subject.
guys stress me out as well, text me that they like me and i’m just so, so confused rn. guys flirt with me and i get this isn’t a huge problem, but it just makes me feel uneasy and uncomfortable. just leave me alone ahhh, i have other problems.
i’m also incredibly pressured into having good grades. i had a 4.0 gpa in 5 th grade, and last year i had 3.9. my parents are pressuring me so much aaaaah.
i have to start working soon to be financially independent by the time i’m 16 (in 3 yrs), which is when i’m leaving to nyc without my parents. it’s just all so soon.
i have problems with my health, and i’m dizzy often. i have meltdowns quite often, and i’m kind of just falling down into this mental health problems pit.