My bf and I have been together for over a year. I love him, but I am struggling with knowing whether I see a long-term future for us. I have always seen myself being alone. As much as I have thought about weddings and having kids and being married, I never really, honestly, saw that happening.
I gave the relationship a shot because I really liked him and he's the closest I've ever been to wanting to be with someone. I am very free-spirited and independent and he's always afraid I'll just get bored and move on. That's not going to happen, but he's not wrong that I have the constant itch to move in life and cut old ties.
How do I know if I should stay? How do I know what is my fear of commitment and what is just me being honest with myself? How do I know if I really just like him, or if I actually like us together?
#21
I would suggest you sit down and talk with him. Be honest with how you feel because honesty is important as well as being willing to talk about things like that.
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#22
There's no right time, there's no "one person" for any of us. If you leave, he can find someone else. You can find someone else. No one's future is written in stone.
Only you can know if moving on is right for you. It doesn't have anything to do with him. If you want to stay you'll stay, if not you'll go. It's about what you want most. Figure that out, and you'll know what you should do.
Only you can know if moving on is right for you. It doesn't have anything to do with him. If you want to stay you'll stay, if not you'll go. It's about what you want most. Figure that out, and you'll know what you should do.
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#23
Talk to him. Maybe get a therapist involved. You seem to genuinely care for him, but you definitely need to figure it out or you’re just going to hurt yourself and him. Good luck xx
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#24
be with him until you find a reason not to
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#25
F**k You, F**k Him, F**k Everyone. Literally, not derogatory. Sex is life. If the sex he gives you is great then, great. Keep up the good fuckwork. If you're bored or not totally fulfilled, invite someone else. Invite several someone's. Build yourself a Harem. Build yourself a TEAM. Team work makes the Dream Work. Have someone for adventure, Have someone for debauchery, Have someone for incredible finance management, Have someone for adventure, Have someone for chill time, Have all who meets your goals with you and helps you exceed them goals.
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#26
Life is too short to date a******s. If you know by now, you know he is not right. You do. Goes for men dating women as well. They are never going to change for you , and you aren't going to change for them.
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