Hi I don’t know if anyone will see this or care to answer but I’m really confused and hurting right now. I have been dating my girlfriend for almost six months and I really love her. And I made a friend this school year. My girlfriend and this new friend (let’s call them joe) has been hugging my gf a lot… they told my friend that joe snuggled with my gf at a party. Joe also said that they had a crush on my gf. I don’t know if this is something I should be worrying about but it is making me really anxious so if anyone tells me what they would do in this situation that would be helpful…if you need anymore information please ask
#1
It depends on what is making you anxious.
If you think that he is being inappropriate with her and she might be uncomfortable you need to talk to her to see what she thinks. She might find it normal (some people are very touchy) or she might dislike it too. If she does then you or her can talk to him about it.
If you are worried that she is cheating on you that is a different issue. You need to reflect about if your anxiety is just insecurities or jealousy. You can get over insecurities, that is normal. But jelousy is not a good thing. You must trust the person that you are dating. She will cheat or not but it is absurd to date a person that you dont trust.
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#2
Talk to your girlfriend about how you are feeling. Tell her that her “cuddles” with your friend “Joe” are bothering you and wait for her reaction. Also, talk to your friend “Joe” and explain that you are upset about him hugging your girlfriend. Boundaries should be set, especially if there are feelings involved.
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