Hey Pandas, Do You Have Any New Year's Resolutions, And What Are They? (Closed)

Try and work on my impulse control and positivity. I have severe depression, but try to stay positive. BTW if you are reading this, you are an amazing, special person. Just remember that sombody, somewhere admires you and wants to be like you!

Having a silver-lining attitude. Ex: I was having a couple over for pre-Christmas dinner, but at the last minute they had to cancel. Instead of disappointment or anger, I thought, "Well, at least the house is really clean!"

Finally get into therapy. And back to work. I lost my son in October to sids at only 15 days old. I have extream ptsd from it, since I'm the one who found him 1st and started cpr. Its time to heal myself and be there better for my family.

First and foremost, to love and accept myself for once, just the way I am. That doesn't mean I will not work on improving myself. I will simply do it with a healthier, more mindful attitude; redefining what actually needs improving, and working on those things with compassion and grace.

Going back to my precovid shape. Both physically and mentally.

Survive the latest round of Covid variant.
Fully vaxxed and boosted but still a bit paranoid and VERY cautious.

Dry January!

To enjoy every day and not fall as far as I did this year. No more unalive attempts

My New Years Resolution is to NOT make any Resolutions, be kind to myself and cut myself a break.

To be healthier. Leave my current boyfriend since all we do is fight.

That would definitely be being less irascible. That's is, unfortunately, a very rooted family trait. We all have what it's said to be a "very short wick" and tend to get so easy angry.

I loathe that trait on myself and I'm constantly working on it. If there's something this whole succession of quarantine time has taught me, that'd be patience, and I'm hoping that my new, more patient state of mind can finally help me tune down my temper.

Wish me luck.

I want to graduate high school, get into honors college, and work towards my goal of becoming a teacher.
I also want to visit what I consider my hometown; I'm a military brat who has lived in many places, but I loved Texas. Well, I hated it, but I loved the people and my community, and that's what matters.

I’m trans masculine (female to male transgender) and my goal is to socially transition. Including asking people to use my preferred name and pronouns and being fairly open about being transgender . It is going to be a bit of a struggle, but I think I will be able to do it.

I don't do resolutions. What I do is look back and list what I've accomplished. Feels a lot more real.

byebye bulimia

Getting back to the gym. But I’m not setting up an unrealistic goal, just want to make it a habit again.

Probably getting off my phone more often. Since quarantine, I’ve been on my phone to “cure boredom” and “relax” whereas all I do is stress out over beauty videos or how much money I need to fit in. All I do is waste countless hours of my time zoning out on something that I won’t need in my future. I’m also on my phone a lot because I’ve been pretty depressed lately. Whenever I leave my room I feel like everyone is targeting me. Toxic friends, fighting parents, everything sees me and attacks me. Whenever I leave my room I’m just trying not to get hurt.
So this is my “safe place”. But I’m just rotting my brain on useless crap.
Maybe some of you could use a little break too. Maybe some of you staring at this post should take a little break.
Heck, why wait for New Years? Go enjoy yourselves and care not to the toxic people in your life. All they do is feed off of your emotions.
Happy 2022.
Let’s hope it’s somewhat less shitty than 2020 or 2021

I've decided to make the world a better place by personally reducing the amount of alcohol in it. I'm a giver you see.

To stop overthinking everything and to just generally live in the moment.
I'm a chronic overthinker so it won't be easy but it will (hopefully) let me enjoy my life more.

honestly just go outside more. I don't do it much, but really enjoy it every time I do