Hey Pandas, Can You Help Me?

I know the "James" You are talking about (The author and I go to the same school) and yes he gets really annoying sometimes, He is also transphobic and said that Trans women aren't real women and trans men aren't real men because they changed their gender. He gets really confusing sometimes because we have a friend that changes their pronouns a lot and he always respects them. I like James could be just a little confused because he does not know that much about the LGBTQIA+ community. I am not taking any sides or anything.