I have to say that begging strangers for money feels strange. (Probably cultural differences) So you have a close relationship with your children. Will they pay back the money you borrowed? Do they borrow money from their friends? Where does it go? I don't want to be the harbinger of bad things, but the money of well-to-do adults goes innocently on fake eyelashes, nails and party clothes, and at worst on illegal substances, even if it's just for a birthday party. If I were you, I would directly ask why Birthday gifts are not enough and in this case you can join forces with your relatives.
