ADHD is not just hyperactivity. Sure, sometimes we get uncontrollable amounts of energy, and we’re fidgety, but that’s not all ADHD is. We can’t focus on stuff, but sometimes when we do, we focus HARD on it and can’t think of anything else. That’s called hyperfixating. People with ADHD are prone to anger and aggression (though not everyone, of course), and mood swings. We do have very short attention spans and sometimes have multiple trains of thought at once, and often switch abruptly between topics. We are prone to forgetfulness and suffer from executive dysfunction. Our prefrontal cortexes never fully develop.
OCD is not just being neat and orderly. People with OCD will get intrusive thoughts that cause them extreme distress. For instance, my brain will tell me that I have to do certain things or else someone I love will die. And we constantly obsess over fears. People who just like to be organized probably don’t have OCD, unless they fear not doing so will have a very negative outcome. Don’t say you have OCD if you just like to be organized. It’s quite offensive.
Autistic =/= dumb. That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever heard. Some people with autism have learning disabilities, but not everyone. You also can’t be more or less autistic, people just have different symptoms.
NEVER use the r slur. That s**t’s offensive as f**k. Don’t do that, ever. Not even as a “joke.”