Hey Lgbtq+ Pandas, What Is The Worst Thing Someone Has Ever Said To You When They Were Trying To Be "Accepting"

Made a face when I told her my preferred name, then told me it was too “dark” and “emo” in a really mocking way, apologized, tried to comfort me by saying “we could work together to come up with a new one”, like no??? I like it??? It makes me happy????told my grandparents, dad and brother without permission and then proceeded to tell me that I could tell her anything :(