Ladies, you know when a man is dialing it in emotionally, stop pretending as if he’s this great actor that has you fooled. He knows you don’t feel loved because he knows he isn’t showing you real love! If you felt loved, you wouldn’t have to beg for his attention. If you felt loved, you wouldn’t be tripping about when your wedding ring is coming. If you felt loved, you wouldn’t be up at night worrying about if you are indeed just a Placeholder. He says he "loves" you, but when was the last time you’ve FELT as if he loved you? If your mind just raced back to different examples of when he did something nice, then you’re in denial. A WOMAN WHO IS TRULY LOVED DOESN'T NEED TO THINK ABOUT THE THINGS A MAN HAS DONE IN THE PAST, SHE KNOWS FROM THE WAY SHE FEELS CURRENTLY.
If the man you are currently with feels wrong more than likely he is. Many times we try to convince ourselves that he is the one for us and we come up with a laundry list of excuses as to why he is not putting forth effort. A man who is into you will make it clear through his conversation and actions. A man who is playing you will string you along putting forth minimal effort to keep you around because you are convenient.
If you are always the one suggesting going out and planning the dates he is playing you. A man who is chasing you will make sure he plans special dates from time to time, a man who is stringing you along will never make you feel special. Listen to your inner voice, if you feel as if he doesn't care more than likely he doesn't. If the conversations are always about him and how his day went but never bothers to ask about yours he is all take and no give.
If the only time you really hear from him is when he wants to hook up, he is not that into you. If his form of communication is texting you after certain hrs of the day wanting to see you that is a huge red flag you should never ignore.
Grown men don't play games, string you along or entertain any other women. You will know when you have found a real man and a true gentleman, because there will be no guessing, no anxiety, and no other competition. He will make sure that you are safe and loved!
